Episode 13

Chat with Kiki part 4 - "One of the most compelling attributes of Bitcoin is the time preference"

"Women are the main caretakers... in some ways, women have less time [than men]... But that means they value their time more, and I think one of the most important attributes or compelling attributes of Bitcoin is the time preference."

-Kiki

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Transcript
Tali:

Hi everyone.

Tali:

Today we will listen to part four of my conversation with Kiki.

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health and wellness and self-care practices.

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I was very close to the people that were developing practices early on, because I

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was involved in a dance and theater and experimental theater, physical theater

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community in New York City through my studies at New York University.

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And then through working with these really groundbreaking theater

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directors, choreographers, postmodern choreographers, as well as doing

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contact improv, which is a really exciting form of dance and movement.

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And then I was involved in yoga and everything else.

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And so, you know, today obviously we hear a lot about, you know, fascial release,

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and there's foam rollers in every gym.

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Well, when I was, you know, in the early eighties I was working with teachers,

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directors, choreographers, and we, they were pioneering fascial release.

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We were using, you know, um, rollers like you would use in

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the kitchen for making a pie.

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So I owned, I had a roller in my Chinese village.

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People would be like, You don't even bake.

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Why do you have this?

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I'm like, that's for my, my facial release.

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And so we were lying on, you know, rolling on tennis ball and shoving two

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tennis balls into a sock so that it perfectly went to either side of our

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neck and spine and everything like that.

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And so I, I mention all this to say that I think an important part of

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Bitcoin adoption is that someone is an outlier and they're an early adopter.

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And I ran into an NYU professor of mine, I guess like 35

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years later or 30 years later.

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I left New York, I had come back, I was at one of my favorite places in the

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whole world, the Russian and Turkish baths, because when I lived in the

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East Village in the eighties and early nineties, these were old tenements.

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When people are like, what was it like?

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I'm like, go to the Tenement Museum.

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You'll see exactly what it was like.

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You know, the apartments were freezing, the old fashioned windows,

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the air, the wind blowing in.

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So there was an old fashioned bathhouse.

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And there used to be public bathhouses.

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People wanted to get clean.

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They went to a bathhouse once a week.

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So, you know, as someone who was constantly moving and cold in the

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winter, I loved gonna the Russian bath.

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So jump ahead in, you know, 2010, I'm at the Russian bath.

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I see a former teacher, professor of mine from NYU in experimental movement

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oriented theater, and he recognized me and he was like, "oh my God.

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Oh my God, you did everything said, we told you your body is an instrument.

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Your voice is an instrument.

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You must look after your instrument so you can express in the possible

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full-fullest way through movement and voice and everything like that."

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So yes, I did do all those things.

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So I was an early adopter because of course I wasn't the only person

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that was exposed to those techniques, but I continued to do them.

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I think, you know, when you and I first met you were like, "I rarely see people of

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your generation at these Bitcoin meetups.

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What are you doing here?"

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And I would say I'm not like other people who are my age.

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Anwhen I first learned about Bitcoin, I reached out to people

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from age 45 to 65 and I was like, "What do you know about Bitcoin?"

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What do you know about Bitcoin?

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I asked a hundred people, many of them highly successful in business, and 99

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people said, "Bitcoin, it's rat poison" or whatever they said, "Bitcoin, I

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don't know anything about Bitcoin" or "it's a ponzi" or "it's nothing."

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So no one knew about Bitcoin.

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When I, I started yoga.

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I first opened a yoga school, you know, 12 years or 13 years after learning yoga.

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I opened a yoga school in Los Angeles in 1996 really before we were using

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the internet or anything like that.

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And, uh, I was driving around LA and looking for "for rent" signs in

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commercial real estate buildings.

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Then I would, you know, stop and write down the phone number and then go

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home, and call them on the landline.

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And they, you know, a landlord would ask what kinda business and I would say "yoga"

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and the landlords would say "No food."

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And they would hang up the phone.

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They thought I was saying "yogurt," so I'm not like other people.

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Early adopters.

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When I opened my yoga school, I opened a yoga school in a

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creative small neighborhood.

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I would say that I opened one of the first neighborhood yoga schools in Los Angeles.

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Um, and that would mean for the rest of the most of the rest of

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the country and the world because there was like two or three well

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known yoga schools in most towns.

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They had to do with a certain lineage of teaching.

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So you went to the Iyengar Yoga school or you went to the Kundalini Yoga school.

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And so when I was opening yoga school in Silver Lake, people were like, "who do you

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think is gonna go to your a yoga school?

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Why are you opening it there?"

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The tiny farmer beauty salon.

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And I was like, "who's gonna come?

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All the artists and creative people that live in the neighborhood.

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They're just gonna drive by it or walk by it and walk in and do yoga."

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And so that, you know, was very successful.

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So, I would say I'm an early adopter, I'm an outlier.

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And if someone is not an early adopter and they're not an outlier, they're

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not gonna be interested in Bitcoin.

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Someone has to have a general distrust of authority.

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'Cause if they think that their government or their bank or even, you

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know, the older generation or something is looking out for them or has their

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best interest at the forefront...

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well, they're, they're not gonna be interested in Bitcoin, and it has to

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be someone who's very disciplined.

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So if someone's not disciplined, they're just gonna be like, "why would I go

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through all the trouble of learning about Bitcoin, holding my own, learning

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about cryptography, holding my own keys, listening to hundreds of hours of podcasts

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that make very little sense initially?"

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So someone has to be very disciplined and they have to be disciplined enough to say

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like, "I'm saving my money for my future."

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And I would also say they have to have high confidence because if they have

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low confidence, then if anybody says to them, "Bitcoin, that's dangerous."

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They're gonna quit.

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"Bitcoin?

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What are you talking about?

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Bitcoin?

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What are you stupid?

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That's ridiculous."

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So you have to have high confidence.

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You have to be able to go, when people are like, "yoga?

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Why do you go to yoga every morning at 8:00 AM?"

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Which in like the mid 1980s was the craziest thing a person could do.

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Well, I had high confidence and I had high discipline, and I was an outlier, and I

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had a general distrust of authority, and so I was like, "Because it's amazing."

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So I think people have to have that.

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Maybe most of the men, most of the people in Bitcoin, which are mostly

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men, maybe they have more of that.

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I don't know.

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Maybe it's harder for women to have those qualities.

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Maybe women are too busy with full-time work and child rearing and all these

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other responsibilities because women are the main caretakers, whether that's

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their own elderly parents or siblings or children or nieces, nephews, et cetera.

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So in some ways, women have less time.

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But that means they value their time more, and I think the most, one of the

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most important attributes or compelling attributes of Bitcoin is the time

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preference, is if you really value your time and how little of it, you know,

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we actually have, and how quickly time flies, then we know whatever money we

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take today to put into Bitcoin, even if that's 10 US dollars or 50 US dollars

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or 500 US dollars, that money in Bitcoin is going to grow in value despite, you

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know, these dips and rises that we see.

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If look at it over the life of Bitcoin, which is only 14 years,

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they're barely distinguishable, and we only see like this upward arc.

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And so if someone really values their time and they value meaningful

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experiences over fast food, fast fashion, fast, you know, entertainment,

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social media, things like that.

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So if they value meaningful experiences, then Bitcoin is like the marshmallow test.

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It's like the perfect time preference test.

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Can you wait?

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If you wait, you know, five minutes or 10 minutes before you eat that marshmallow,

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I'm going to give you two marshmallows and you know, you can go to YouTube and

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look at the marshmallow test and you can really see the children, really like the

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look on the face of the children that have that ability to wait out the time

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period and get that second marshmallow.

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That's all about time preference.

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Can we sort of stay the course, save money, hold it in Bitcoin for our

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meaningful experiences in our later life, for our meaningful experiences, for,

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you know, our, our families or whatever.

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So yes, I would say those are qualities that are important

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for understanding or becoming interested and investing in Bitcoin.

Tali:

I definitely agree with you about how you have to not be afraid

Tali:

to be an outlier, especially at this time in the development of Bitcoin.

Tali:

I think there will come a day when you can't be a part of the

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ecosystem and not be an outlier.

Tali:

And that's what we're striving for.

Kiki:

Yes, but we're still early.

Tali:

We're still early.

Kiki:

We're still early.

Kiki:

So you, we have to be an early adopter.

Tali:

Thank you for joining us today.

Tali:

We will continue this conversation tomorrow.

Tali:

Be sure to come back and hear the rest.

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"Hello everyone, I'm Tali! If you had met me a few years back, you'd have found me in the thick of homeschooling my four incredible kids. That was my world for two decades, filled with lesson plans, school projects, and a whole lot of beautiful chaos. But once they all graduated, a new and unexpected journey began for me - in the world of Bitcoin.

The spark was lit by my husband, nudging me towards this peculiar thing known as Bitcoin. At first, I resisted. After all, the complexity of Bitcoin was intimidating and my plate was already quite full. But he persisted, and even went as far as creating a bitcoin-mining board game, HODL UP, to teach me what it was. Before I knew it, I was orange-pilled, and my curiosity was piqued. What started as a casual dip of my toes soon turned into a fascinating dive into Bitcoin. Like my homeschooling journey, I took it slow, one baby step at a time, learning and adapting as I delved deeper.

Fast-forward to today, I am absolutely thrilled to share my Bitcoin adventures with all you amazing and busy women out there through this podcast. I've made sure the episodes are bite-sized and easy to follow, perfect for your coffee breaks or while running errands. My goal? To share my experiences and the experiences of other women in Bitcoin in an engaging, easily digestible way. Don't let time constraints or technical jargon stop you from diving into Bitcoin. As your friendly guide, I hope to provide a grounded, relatable perspective to help you navigate the Bitcoin rabbit hole. So, here's to us exploring this thrilling digital frontier together!