Episode 87
Bitcoin's Role in Reducing Recidivism w/Stacey - "The biggest challenge for everybody in Bitcoin is unlearning."
The transformative potential of Bitcoin, particularly its ability to help people escape cycles of crime and poverty.
In the episode of 'Orange Hatter,' Tali introduces an upcoming women's retreat focused on Bitcoin and welcomes her guest, Stacy, for a conversation on her unique journey into the Bitcoin community.
After a long career in the corporate world, Stacy lost her job during the COVID pandemic and utilized her newfound free time to immerse herself in the world of Bitcoin. Impressed and inspired by the stories of individuals transforming their lives through Bitcoin, like Justin Redrick, she decided to start a non-profit, ‘Bitcoin Transformation Community,’ with the aim of increasing Bitcoin awareness, providing hope and motivation, and helping former convicts reintegrate into society through Bitcoin-related job placements.
The episode concludes with discussions on working in a male-dominated industry and empowering women through Bitcoin.
00:03 Introduction and Overview
00:29 Announcement of the Orange Hatter Women's Retreat
01:28 Introduction of the Guest - Stacey
01:45 Stacey's Background and Journey
02:38 Stacey's Career in Consulting and Academia
03:14 Stacey's Transition to the Bitcoin Space
04:20 Stacey's Role in Corporate Impact Measurement
09:54 Stacey's Experience in Non-Profit Sector
19:32 Stacey's Personal Journey and Move to Las Vegas
21:46 Stacey's Involvement in the Bitcoin Community
25:32 Changing Perspectives on Bitcoin
25:44 The Birth of a Nonprofit
25:54 Justin's Journey: From Prison to Bitcoin
26:43 Discovering Bitcoin Mining as a Solution
27:33 From Bars to Bitcoin Reentry Tour: A New Initiative
28:29 Challenges and Strategies in Educating Inmates about Bitcoin
28:40 The Impact of Financial Crimes and the Potential of Bitcoin
29:50 Strategic Goals of the Program
32:52 Expanding Bitcoin Awareness in Las Vegas
38:08 Challenges Faced by Women in the Bitcoin Space
41:05 The Importance of Diversity in the Bitcoin Community
48:17 Personal Experiences and the Impact of Bitcoin
51:12 Closing Remarks and Invitation to Join the Women's Reading Club
You can reach Stacey on Twitter/X @sboyle and https://bitcointransformationcommunity.org/
*** Check out the Orange Hatter Women's Retreat @OrangeHatterPod
To learn more about Bitcoin: Join the Orange Hatter Women's Reading Club. Visit https://www.meetup.com/womensbitcoinreadingclubwithorangehatter
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Transcript
Most crimes are committed for financial reasons.
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:You rob, you sell drugs, you prostitute...
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:And then you waste your precious
time on this planet, sitting in
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:prison while the currency you
committed the crime for is debasing.
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:That's the wake up call that we
go in prison and talk about.
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:Tali: Hey,
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:Everybody.
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:Welcome to Orange Hatter.
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:Before we dive into my conversation
with our guest today, I want to share
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:with you a very exciting project,
the Orange Hatter Women's Retreat.
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:The mission of this retreat is to create
a nurturing sanctuary where women in the
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:Bitcoin space can connect with each other,
recharge batteries, find grounding, and
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:form deep friendships so that you don't
feel so isolated where you are sharing
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:the potential of Bitcoin with the world
while keeping an eye on the fiat system.
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:This retreat is going to
be absolutely amazing.
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:I am partnering with the
Yucatan Project in Mexico.
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:Keep an eye out on Twitter
at Orange Hatter Pod.
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:I'll give out more information
as they are finalized.
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:Spaces are very limited, and
they're going to fill up fast.
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:So sign up for it when the registration
and I will see you in Mexico.
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:And now we're going to.
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:Continue with our podcast.
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:Here is my conversation with
our wonderful guests today.
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:STacey, welcome to Orange Hatter.
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:So glad to have you here.
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:Sounds like we've got a fabulous story
to, , dig out of you in today's episode.
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:Can't wait.
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:Thank you very much for joining us.
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:Stacey: Thank you.
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:I'm thrilled to be here.
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:What a fun way to spend my afternoon.
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:Tali: Awesome.
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:So let's start by, , chatting a
little bit about your background.
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:Would you mind sharing with us, where
you grew up and maybe a little bit of
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:on education profession, et cetera.
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:Stacey: Yeah, yeah, happy to do it.
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:, so I grew up in Oklahoma.
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:I grew up in Oklahoma City, went to high
school in Oklahoma City, and I followed
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:sort of the traditional path that, you
know, many women were groomed to follow.
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:Right?
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:So you get out of high school, you
go to college, you earn a degree, you
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:get married, you have your babies, and
you keep working, and then you retire,
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:and then whatever happens, you get
to have fun when you retire, right?
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:So I did that traditional path,
unbeknownst to me, , that it was
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:a traditional path, and I did not
know I was going to follow it.
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:There's no intention to do that.
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:, but I did, and after I graduated
from high school, I went to college
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:at Oklahoma State University,
and I was there for 12 years.
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:I got a bachelor's, master's, and Ph.
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:D.
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:all at Oklahoma State.
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:And then after that, I finally left
Oklahoma and, , moved to Illinois.
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:I got a job at Anderson
Consulting back in the day.
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:You know, it's Accenture now.
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:but it was the big consulting firm, , and
so I lived in Chicago for 25 years,
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:and I just recently, a little over
a year ago, relocated to Las Vegas.
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:And I'm in Las Vegas now living the
fabulous Bitcoin life and my friends
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:and everybody is envious and curious
about what in the heck I'm doing and
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:why did I leave the corporate world and
start a non profit in the Bitcoin space.
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:Tali: Okay.
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:So what did you get your PhD in?
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:Stacey: Research and evaluation, so
it's like quantitative, , so I've
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:taught at universities like research
design and all that kind of thing.
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:Tali: And then for Anderson Consulting,
you were a consultant for corporate.
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:Stacey: Listen, I actually
worked internal at Anderson.
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:I wasn't a century.
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:You know, I wasn't a line consultant.
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:I worked internally.
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:I've got 25 years in the
learning and development space.
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:So primarily, I work with I consult with
chief learning officers, , like, fortune
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:100 nonprofits, the federal government
and help them build out their learning
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:strategy, their tech strategy and their
measurement strategy, usually, you know
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:how to demonstrate business impact.
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:Which a K is now called proof
of work in the Bitcoin space.
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:So that's what I've done for a long time.
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:Tali: How interesting.
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:Okay, so how do you
measure corporate impact?
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:Stacey: Well, one, it depends on the
client Two, if I'm a consultant, it
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:depends on how much they're funding me.
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:The government I worked for
defense, , as a consultant, defense
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:acquisition university, , pulled me in.
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:And what they do is they train all
of their vendors and suppliers.
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:, to the government and they conducted,
I think, , , six or seven ROI.
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:Studies to look at the impact of their
investment training and, , nobody
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:could really get the right data.
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:They couldn't get anything to
satisfy the executive team.
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:So I said, okay, they called me up
and I said, let me take a swag at it.
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:And we talked about it.
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:And I, I know the problems that a
lot of organizations have is actually
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:getting the data and knowing what
right data to get and to capture.
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:So I did that.
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:I laid out a plan and said,
these are the metrics we need.
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:And they said, Oh, you can't.
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:This is the same thing I heard when I
did a big consulting project for Verizon.
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:I did five ROI projects for Verizon.
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:And they're like, you can't get the data.
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:It's not possible to get sales data.
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:The government was saying, Oh, you can't
get data from these other departments.
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:And I'm like, watch me.
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:I'm Watch me do it.
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:And I just called these people
and I'm like, Hey, I'm a paid
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:consultant, , so I'm a third party,
they've got some money invested in
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:me, so that's how I can get data.
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:So I'm not internal.
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:So that was the advantage
that I always had.
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:So I had the ability to go knock
down the bricks out of the wall
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:and knock down the wall and get in
to get the data that they needed.
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:And the strategy I always follow is
I say, look, I'm going to have you
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:go with me, I'll lead in, I'll knock
down the wall and you're in with me.
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:And then by the time my
consulting gigs over, I'll back
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:out and you're right in there.
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:And they're used to working with you.
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:So we were able to get data
from different departments.
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:They never could before.
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:, and we did 5 ROI studies for them.
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:No, wait, we did 4 ROI studies for
defense acquisition , university,
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:, and, and it was great.
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:They want awards for what we
did and everything was just kind
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:of unique because this is what.
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:My consulting firm does and what we did.
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:So we knew how to go about it.
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:And I've done this for non profits.
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:Like I said, the government, big consult,
like McDonald's, Verizon, I consulted
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:to the big, , fortune 500 companies.
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:So, lots of wounds, lots of scars,
full of hard knocks with that approach.
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:I figured it out.
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:Tali: Okay, , so you're measuring,
, impact through sales numbers, or through
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:social impact, some kind of, , scale of
social change or environmental or like
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:what kind of impact were you measuring
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:Stacey: Well, it would depend, right?
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:So for the corporations, usually
it would be a financial impact.
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:So they would say we give the learning
function, , 5 million this year.
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:What's our ROI in the 5 million?
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:Learning and development is sort
of similar to marketing, right?
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:, how do you know it was really that ad, or
that investment in marketing that sold
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:more Coke, sold more hamburgers, ? , , and
the same thing with learning, ? We're
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:investing all this money in learning, and
most corporations look at learning and
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:development sort of like a necessary evil.
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:Because they, they like,
why do we have to fund this?
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:What do those people really do?
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:All you do is take my salespeople off the
street when they should be making money.
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:You're putting them in these classrooms.
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:What are they doing?
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:Is it really changing the numbers?
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:, sometimes the learning
department's not transparent.
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:The big problem was always, honestly,
throughout the years, is that the chief
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:learning officers didn't have the ability
to speak the language of the business.
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:And they would go in and they would
speak learning and L and D language,
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:learning and development language.
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:And that didn't resonate.
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:You have to go speak finance
to the finance people.
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:You have to speak, you know,
by like softer impact, like
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:to the marketing people.
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:So how you measure the impact
of marketing issues is kind of
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:similar, how you would do it
and learning and development.
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:So the idea is you've got to take you
usually a longterm approach, because
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:for instance, you pull your salespeople
off the street and you train them.
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:I'm not going to see an impact tomorrow.
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:Next week, next month,
it could take six months.
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:It could take a year.
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:It could take two years to see an impact.
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:So that's when I started going
through this whole process, I created
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:a tool called the impact blueprint,
and I have a trademark for that.
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:And what I've done is I set up a model.
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:It's literally just a logic model that
says, look, you invested, , and funded
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:in this program or this initiative,
this department, and we're going to
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:show you the little micro steps of where
we're making an impact because you're
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:not may not see the financial impact
or the big needles moving for a while.
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:So we have to show them
the little needles.
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:That are moving until we get to the
big needles and that satisfies their
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:need to understand and say, Oh,
we are, making a difference here.
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:And then when you're looking at
these little needles, these little
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:factors, levers that you can pull if
you're not doing well on those, you
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:get to go back and revamp your plan.
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:So you roll out a training program.
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:Oh, the people were satisfied, but
it's really hard to apply on the job.
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:Well, then let's go back and retool
and figure out how can we make
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:it easier for them to apply on
the job for them to understand.
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:So you can start tweaking the program.
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:It gives you insights on how to
tweak your program to drive impact.
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:Because you don't want to wait two
years later and be like, Oh, darn,
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:we sent them to a month long training
two years ago and nothing happened.
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:That's not going to fly, and that's what,
, learning leaders would often do before.
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:So, things have changed a lot, but
you have to show those little micro
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:steps before you show the big impact.
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:Tali: so you went from working with major
agencies big corporations and now to a
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:nonprofit so tell me about that process
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:Stacey: Yeah, , I'm just a
continuous learner, right?
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:, I have a growth mindset,
continuous learner.
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:So, I worked for non profits,
well, not worked for, but I've
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:consulted to non profits before.
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:I did a huge , evaluation study
for, United Way in Minneapolis.
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:I did a four year
longitudinal study for them.
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:Minnesota had the largest, , achievement
gap between, in high schools of
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:white students and students of color.
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:So, You've got white students and
everybody else was considered students
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:of color, and they're the largest
achievement gap in the nation.
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:And so United Way donated 6 million,
I think somewhere between six and
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:10 million to the high schools to
implement these programs to close
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:that achievement gap between white
students and students of color.
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:So I did a longitudinal study across
four years, looked at the investment, the
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:programs, the high schools were building.
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:, I worked with the high schools.
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:I worked the school districts.
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:I worked the colleges.
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:, so I just designed this whole
program, my consulting team
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:and I, , and we delivered it.
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:And that's where I created
the impact blueprint.
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:Which what is the trademark that
I have to show this little micro
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:steps and that's what united way then
use my report actually to this day.
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:, so I finished in 2018 and a couple
weeks ago, I looked on their website
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:and I realized they're still using
my impact blueprint and they're
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:still referring to my consulting
practice in:
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:And what I did for United was kind of
the same thing I did at McDonald's was I
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:showed them the importance of evaluation
and how to set up the evaluation team.
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:I always tell them when I
start I said my job is to work
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:myself out of a job with you.
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:Is to teach you how to fish because
I'm not going to be here forever.
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:And I don't want to do this forever.
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:And I don't want to work for
the same company forever.
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:So I want to teach you to fish.
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:So United Way end up building their
own evaluation department based on my
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:coaching and consulting and my techniques.
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:And then I did the same
thing at McDonald's.
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:, I built the evaluation model
for McDonald's corporate
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:when I was in Chicago.
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:And I became really good friends with
their chief learning officer, Diana
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:Thomas, and when she retired in 2016,
I called her and I'm like, Hey, Diana,
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:we have such a great story to tell.
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:We should write a book.
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:So Diana Thomas and I wrote a book and
it was released in:
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:to be more strategic in business.
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:So we got our book.
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:Look here.
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:Tali: that's so cool
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:Stacey: Yeah, so it's kind of interesting.
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:And I tell this story at the
beginning of the book about, I went
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:straight through to get my PhD.
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:I got my PhD at 29, I didn't have
life experience at all when I got out.
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:And I got my first job at Accenture.
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:And there's some consulting and I was
there six months and I got my first
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:performance review and I moved from
Oklahoma to Illinois and it's my
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:big career and I was out of college.
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:I was a freshly minted doctor all
excited and I got my first performance
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:review at six months and they're
like, people don't like you, Stacy.
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:They don't like meeting with you.
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:And I was like, what?
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:I am sitting here working my butt off.
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:Are you kidding me with all this?
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:And they're like, you
need to be more strategic.
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:Like, what did that mean?
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:That's not me.
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:And they couldn't explain it to me.
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:I, I had business classes in school,
but I wasn't a business major and
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:I didn't really understand it.
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:And this was in 97.
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:There was no Google.
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:I couldn't Google it.
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:. I mean, I go to the library
and looked up books about
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:strategy, but it didn't help me.
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:And so I finally, I figured out,
I'm like, I just learned throughout
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:time watching people and learning
about what being strategic meant.
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:So I taught myself when we talk about
that journey, in our book and the
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:difference between being tactical and
being strategic and we give examples and
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:most of our examples, of course, are L
and D learning and development examples.
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:, but it's where I really grew
and learn to be more strategic.
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:And we use a Stephen Covey metaphor
about, , climbing a ladder in a jungle.
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:. So it's the leader's job to climb
the ladder and look in the jungle
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:and look over the trees and say.
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:Hey, we're in the right jungle or
look over the trees and say, Oh,
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:my gosh, we're in the wrong jungle.
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:All you guys, workers and producers
down below, you need to shift, , we
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:need to change what we're doing.
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:So you listen to your leader doing that.
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:But the leaders down there with
you, plowing the weeds and cleaning
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:up, they won't be able to help you.
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:So it's a leadership book really.
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:And it's really about how to think
strategically when you're not trained
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:or it's not natural, like strategic
thinking, wasn't natural for me,
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:but it was very natural for Diana.
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:So that's kind of how we
complimented each other.
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:Tali: so you went from co authoring
a book and then Somehow you discover
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:Bitcoin, which we're going to talk about.
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:And then , you completely transitioned
into a full time Bitcoin nonprofit.
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:Stacey: You know what?
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:Good things and bad things about COVID.
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:So that was a good thing because it
forced me to slow down and stop and
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:think, and be more thoughtful and actually
be more strategic about my own life.
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:. I'm sitting here consulting every single
day with businesses about how to be more
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:strategic, how to communicate to the
executive team, how to get the right data
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:and tell your story and all this, but
I wasn't doing it in my personal life.
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:And COVID forced to happen.
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:When COVID happened, I was
on a nine month contract.
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:I was consulting to Booz Allen Hamilton,
a consulting firm in Washington, D.
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:C., and I was, , we were restructuring
their learning development
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:function from a traditional L& D
to become a corporate university.
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:So we were probably about,
I'd say, 75 percent of the
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:I'd been training and upskilling their,
, learning department of 70 people.
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:then COVID hit.
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:, and my friend that was a CLO said,
Stacy, I don't even know if I have a
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:job, I can't continue your contract,
we don't know what's happening, ? L&
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:D was really in a weird place because
when COVID hit, training, which is
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:weird, like, are we going to train?
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:Are we not going to train?
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:Is it going to be virtual?
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:How's it going to happen?
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:? It was so confusing.
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:So I essentially lost all of my work.
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:And I'm like, what do I do now?
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:So what happens is, , my sister tells
me about this new app called Clubhouse.
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:It's like, oh, there's this
thing called clubhouse.
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:You should go in there.
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:So I'm at home I live by myself and I was
so bored So i'm just exploring clubhouse
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:and I saw this room called cafe bitcoin
that neil jacobs started I always wonder
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:about this cryptocurrency thing What is
I don't even know what any of this is
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:about I had no time to think about any
of it And I got in these bitcoin rooms.
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:I started listening.
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:I'm like, this is interesting
I'd hop around in different
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:rooms then started listening.
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:I'm like I kept getting drawn back
into that room for some strange reason.
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:And I started listening
and I was just amazed.
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:It was actually was affecting me
emotionally when I was listening to these
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:stories and these people talk about it
because now it's sort of like a gap
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:that they get and they just talk, but
back then it was really educational.
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:They were talking about how to get a
wallet, the difference between Bitcoin
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:and crypto and kind of one on one.
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:And I learned so much.
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:And Every time somebody mentioned
a book, I'd grab my phone, write it
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:down, go buy that book and read it.
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:So, I literally was doing all of my
background research and , my own
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:personal proof of work, , during COVID.
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:And when I did all that, , I started,
I told myself, cause I, I pushed myself
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:quite a bit and I said, okay, in six
months, you're going to be on that stage.
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:You're going to get enough.
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:You're going to know enough to get
enough confidence to where they invite
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:you up to be a speaker and cafe Bitcoin.
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:And I got there and I did it.
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:I was so interested cause I was lit.
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:I would look like I was obsessed with it.
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:I was on clubhouse 24 seven, no matter
because it was COVID anything else to do.
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:, and then, , through Clubhouse, then
I'd go into Black Bitcoin Billionaires
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:and then I heard Justin Redrick talking
once about his Bars to Bitcoin book,
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:about how he came out of prison and how
Bitcoin, enhanced the quality of his life
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:and gave him confidence and motivation.
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:And I'm like, , I like this guy.
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:He's really smart.
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:He's really nice.
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:And I can't believe what he's doing.
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:Bitcoin helped him turn his life around.
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:Like, how can that be?
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:So I started thinking about it.
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:And at that time I was pretty active in
Rotary Club with the exchange students.
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:And so I was like, you know what?
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:The Rotarians, it's kind of
humanitarian organization.
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:They would love Justin's story.
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:So I just reached out to him on
Clubhouse and said, Hey, would you
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:be willing to come do a virtual?
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:Presentation of my Rotary Club and
he's like, yeah, so he did that and
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:then we just kind of kept in touch.
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:I sent him a copy of my book and I'd
wake up some mornings and he'd send
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:me text messages of screenshots of
where he circled something in my book.
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:Oh my god, I didn't know about this.
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:This is a great saying.
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:Thank you.
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:So we kind of just
stayed in touch that way.
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:And then in March.
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:So I worked for a Silicon
Valley tech startup.
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:You know, you work for a tech startup,
and the goal is to get sold, right?
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:So I knew it was coming.
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:And of course, big fish hit the
little fish, I went over to the
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:big organization and they don't
need any more executive leaders.
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:They've got executive leaders,
, but they're like, Oh, we're
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:not going to lay anybody off.
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:And then, six months later,
they lay off 95 percent of us
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:that came into the acquisition.
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:So in March, I lost my
job, this past March.
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:And I'm like, what do I do now?
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:, what do I do?
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:and so I called Justin and
I was talking to Justin.
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:I'm I'm like, Hey, I lost my job.
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:Let's do , what do we want to do?
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:Like we just start talking and he
was telling me about everything
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:he's been through and we just kind
of worked together and decided that
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:we wanted to start a nonprofit.
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:I decided that I really only
wanted to be around Bitcoiners.
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:I only want to talk about Bitcoin.
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:I wanted to be surrounded, , by Bitcoiners
and just kind of my people and we were
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:aligned , from a value perspective,
we're aligned, , with our values.
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:So that's why I decided to do it.
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:And, and there's another thing,
and I tell this story often.
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:But really, really the
truth of what happened.
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:Okay.
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:Here's the okay.
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:Here's the wizard behind the curtain.
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:, in December of 21, my daughter and I went
to visit my, I was living in Chicago.
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:My daughter and I went to visit my sister
in San Diego, and we get home to Chicago.
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:And I've been to San Diego like
a week, you know, beautiful,
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:beautiful weather and everything.
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:And we get back and it was just snowing
like heck in Chicago and I had a, two and
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:a half hour drive home, white knuckling it
all the way, thinking, oh God, don't kill
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:both of us, you know, on the drive home.
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:We get home and I hadn't been home for
a week and I get out of the car and I'm
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:like, okay, let me go check the mail.
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:So I'm walking down the driveway and
I fall, hit my head, break my phone.
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:And check the mail and I went in
the house and I just had a bloody
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:meltdown and something hit me.
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:I started screaming.
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:I'm like, I'm done.
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:I'm done.
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:I'm done.
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:I'm moving to Vegas.
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:And my daughter's like, she's
23 or she's 22 at the time.
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:And she's like, What?
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:You're moving to Vegas?
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:I think I have a concussion.
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:I don't know.
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:I'm moving to Vegas.
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:It's like, Mom, we just
got home from the airport.
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:Like, what are you talking about?
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:And, , I said, let me do some research.
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:Cause I'm not really, I don't
think I'm really a spontaneous
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:person, too spontaneous.
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:I'm like, I'm very thoughtful
and planned about what I do.
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:, so I said, let me do a lot
of research over the weekend.
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:I said, I'll tell you by Monday.
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:And of course I dug in on the weekend.
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:And then on Monday I said, I'm moving.
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:I said, I'm moving to Las Vegas.
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:I figured finances out.
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:I did everything.
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:And I said, I'm going and I really
because I could feel I feel like
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:our company is going to get sold.
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:I was I had my full time job at the time.
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:I was leading a solution consulting
team at the time, a global team.
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:And I could just feel it coming.
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:So I told my daughter said, okay, by the
end of first quarter, I'm out of here.
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:And I lived that house 25 years.
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:So I sold my house at the top
of the market, flew out to
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:Vegas, found a rental property.
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:Transcribed And moved here April 1st.
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:So my best friend helped me sell
90 percent of the stuff in my home.
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:So I freed everything up, sold
everything, moved to Vegas.
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:My daughter graduated from college in May.
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:I moved here in April last year.
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:She graduated in May.
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:And she's like, Can I
move to Vegas with you?
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:I'm like, I don't care.
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:, come on.
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:So, yeah, so now I live with my daughter
and she lives here and it's so fun.
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:I started the Vegas Bitcoin
Meetup here as well, I often say
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:that I did not pick Vegas Vegas
picked me, Satoshi came to me.
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:I fell got a concussion or something
hit my head and Satoshi, moved
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:the puppet strings and said sell
your house move to Vegas go on on
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:bitcoin So I say it wasn't my choice.
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:I was driven I don't know
what do I honestly don't know.
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:It was just a passion and everything.
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:I felt I've been going through
the past year and I did it and my
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:family and friends were in shock.
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:They're like, what?
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:So I'm shocked a little bit,
but I'm living my dream now.
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:Tali: What a fun story.
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:I'm glad you're okay.
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:Cause you know, falling
on ice, that's no joke.
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:, okay.
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:So I'm, I have several questions.
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:, so you studied really hard.
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:, you were in clubhouse 24 seven, and
you're reading every single book that
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:people recommend you get on the stage.
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:What was your first?
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:Speech about
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:Stacey: Well, I didn't really speak.
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:It was just getting invite.
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:They can bite you up.
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:, And I never had the
courage to raise my hand.
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:I was just listening and learning.
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:And then finally I got the courage.
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:I don't think I would even raise my
hand very often in the beginning.
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:Cause that's very intimidated.
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:I knew nothing about this at all.
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:It was like zero.
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:So I started getting more and more
confidence when I was listening to
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:podcasts, reading books, listening to
Guy Swan, reading, just everything,
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:everything, all I can consume.
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:I was just insane.
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:And so then I got enough confidence
to go up and ask a question.
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:Then I started listening and learning.
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:Then when I would test myself, when
people would go up and ask questions, I
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:would answer their question in my head.
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:And when I got to the point where
I could answer their question, I'm
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:like, I can go on the stage now.
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:So then I felt okay.
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:I felt knowledgeable enough.
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:And actually when I first moved to
Vegas, I needed my own proof of work,
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:you know, because I went through
the traditional education system.
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:You get a degree, , that's
your proof of work.
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:Well, so, I was like, how do I really
know how much I know in Bitcoin?
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:And so I went and took the
certified Bitcoin professional exam.
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:Of course, so I studied for that and I
did learn quite a bit But I was really
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:proud of myself because I knew most of it.
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:There's some little fine details I
didn't know but by studying I got it
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:And so i'm happy to say i'm a certified
bitcoin professional and I told just
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:and I said that's my does my own
personal proof Of work for myself.
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:So that's my degree
for my bitcoin learning
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:Tali: okay.
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:So when you first heard about Bitcoin,
I know that you were listening to
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:Justin's life transformation testimony.
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:Was there any time when you were
listening to him speak when you
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:thought to yourself that can't be real?
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:Like, that sounds too good to be true.
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:Stacey: Yes.
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:And actually when I heard Justin was not
the first time I heard about Bitcoin.
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:So I'm Gen X generation, right?
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:The first time I heard
about Bitcoin was Silk Road.
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:So I was like, when I heard about
Bitcoin was, 11, 12, between
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:11, 20, 12, something like that.
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:And I'm like, that is disgusting.
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:That's criminal.
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:That Ross Albrecht, he should go to jail.
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:These people are bad, bad, bad.
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:Good.
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:They all got caught.
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:And anything I heard about
it, I would like to shut down.
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:I'm like, nope, nope, nope, bad, bad, bad.
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:What do you, I was so busy.
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:I wasn't paying attention.
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:I just knew I didn't like
what they were doing.
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:all the stuff going on with Silk Road.
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:So I was, I just shut it out.
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:I'm like, it's horrible.
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:Cafe Bitcoin was what opened my eyes.
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:Like I said, I have a growth mind.
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:So I said, listen, I'm like,
these people sound normal.
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:They don't sound like criminals.
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:They sound like normal people
and they're passionate.
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:And so I started learning.
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:Then I'd go to the black
Bitcoin billionaires.
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:I'm like, what is this about?
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:You know, and I'd learn
more and more and listen.
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:And so I changed my perspective from
what I thought earlier about Bitcoin to
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:falling in love and being an advocate.
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:And now Orange Pilling
Businesses in Las Vegas about it.
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:So
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:Tali: so what is your nonprofit about?
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:Stacey: Justin and I, May 12.
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:Of 2022, we became a legal
entity in the state of Nevada.
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:And the reason May 12th is an important
day was because that was the day
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:that Justin was released from prison.
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:I don't know if you're know who Justin is.
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:He's sort of an OG in the space.
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:, he went to prison when he was.
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:I think 21.
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:He was in prison for
three years, 21 to 24.
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:, and he's been, he was incarcerated.
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:He's been through homelessness,
college dropout, pretty rough life.
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:And he gets out and discovers Bitcoin.
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:, he's a young black man, cannot get a job.
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:He can't do anything.
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:He applied to wash dishes,
moving companies, right?
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:Everything.
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:He could, nobody would hire him.
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:He was desperate.
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:For money, and he did not want
to go back to a life of crime.
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:He, he didn't want to do anything
illegal because he doesn't have
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:to learn that lesson again.
566
:Right.
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:So, , so he, that's when he discovered
Bitcoin ... so Justin actually went
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:to Empowerment Gideon Powell in Texas
invited him to the Empowerment Conference,
569
:which is about Bitcoin mining, and he
discovered that the miners are really
570
:need employees, they need workers.
571
:The halving's coming, there's a sense
of urgency, and, , he said, I've been
572
:thinking about this project, , he wrote
the book, From Bars to Bitcoin, and he
573
:sent me his book, and I read it and loved
it, and by the way, his book is very good.
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:, it's really inspirational as well.
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:, So I read his book and everything.
576
:, and then he said, they really
need, miners really need employees.
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:And he's like, I think these people
that get out of prison could be
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:employees, , for these mining companies.
579
:So we just noodled on a little
bit, thought about it and dug in.
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:And then we really decided that
this is what we want to do.
581
:, so we designed a, , called From Bars
to Bitcoin Reentry Tour and what
582
:we do is we go into prisons across
the US, and we go into prison and
583
:I built a whole program, right?
584
:We go in and we teach them
Bitcoin basics, just Bitcoin 101.
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:101, and that's because in the prison we
can really only use paper based materials.
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:Really?
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:I mean, we're not going
to teach them mining.
588
:I can't get an A6 in the prison, right?
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:It's not going to happen.
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:Someday it will, but today it can't.
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:So we've got a whole conceptual
project, , that we built out.
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:And I told Justin, I said, look, there's
so many assets, , learning assets
593
:and educational assets in the space.
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:We don't need to recreate,
create the wheel.
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:I don't need to sit here and build
out a whole curriculum for us.
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:So we just started looking around.
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:We pulled like, , the, , me
premier Bitcoin from El Salvador.
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:Open source.
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:They're using it to educate
the students in El Salvador.
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:I'm like, oh my gosh, I
grabbed that looked at that.
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:I'm like, oh, there
are big chunks in here.
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:We can use.
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:the average reading level
of people incarcerated.
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:It's like 4th grade.
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:So we got to keep the
reading level pretty low.
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:We've got to simplify.
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:We have to boil down.
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:So complex topics.
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:So we go into prisons and the
program that we designed, we
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:essentially start talking about money.
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:What is money?
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:And one of the great things, and
Justin's just so brilliant, one of
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:the ahas that he had and that he
brought to me is that these people
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:that commit crimes, most crimes are
committed for financial reasons.
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:You rob, you sell drugs, you
prostitute, you do a lot of things
616
:and use it for financial reasons.
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:And then you waste your precious
time on this planet, sitting in
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:prison while the currency you
committed the crime for is debasing.
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:You get out!
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:, and the dollar's not the same
value as the ones you went in for.
621
:You lost ten years of your life, , for a
ten cent, eight cent loss in the currency.
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:Stop doing that.
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:Quit doing that, people.
624
:Right?
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:So that's the wake up call that
we go in prison and we talk about.
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:And these people have
big ah hahs, , about it.
627
:For instance, we were in prison.
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:He was, like, he was in
a prison September 9th.
629
:And there's a guy said, oh, yeah,
I mined Bitcoin for four years.
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:I'm like, some of these people will
have more Bitcoin than we do all,
631
:put together probably they mine it.
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:And there are people who have no
idea what in the heck it's about.
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:. So our goal is we have three
strategic goals to the program.
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:And the reason we set the
nonprofits, because Jess and I
635
:both believe we want to be super
transparent about everything we do.
636
:And when I built that website.
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:I put everything out there.
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:We have the impact blueprint to show how
we're measuring the that's the trademark.
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:I have how we're measuring the
impact of what we're doing.
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:, so we're just like.
641
:Plugging along, and we're
going to be very transparent.
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:I told you a minute ago that I'm
doing the survey analysis from the
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:satisfaction survey I designed.
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:And so we're collecting data.
645
:We got a 30 day survey going
out to the inmates as well.
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:So, we just decided we want to
be transparent what we're doing.
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:And we've got big plans to go into
many prisons private facilities,
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:and we thought we're using a, like I
said, there's so many great assets out
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:there we're using a partnership model.
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:So I say that we work in the
intersection of Bitcoin and reentry.
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:So reentry is relatively new.
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:So what that's doing is helping
people who are leaving the prison
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:system or correctional facilities,
reentering them into society.
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:So this is where we're helping
them with that transition.
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:So our program has three strategic
goals, which is outlined on our
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:website and in our impact blueprint.
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:And our goals with the program, one
is to increase Bitcoin awareness.
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:With this targeted population in the
facilities to is to, , help people, , give
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:them hope and motivation because when
you have hope and motivation and yes, I
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:can measure hope and motivation when you
have hope and motivation, this will stop
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:this generational poverty mindset that
people have when their eyes are opened.
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:, and they're aware of things of
what's going on in your own behavior.
663
:I often think and talk about that
meme of the one fish talking to other
664
:fish and says, Hey, how's the water?
665
:And the fish like, what water?
666
:That's I felt like I would
that fish all these years.
667
:I was like, what water?
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:What system?
669
:I'm doing what I'm supposed to do.
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:And these people are doing the same
thing, so we're opening their eyes to
671
:that, so we're giving them hope because
that will stop the cycle of poverty
672
:thinking, they'll talk to their friends
and family, and all that, and our goal
673
:is to also reduce the recidivism rate.
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:, , so they don't go back to prison,
quit committing crimes, selling
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:drugs and whatever you're doing
for money that's debasing year over
676
:year, , day over day for that matter.
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:And then our third goal is to,
, offer skilled and credentialed
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:employees to, , right now we're
focused on mining employers because
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:there's a big sense of urgency.
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:So we're giving these people
quick, , Trying to get them job
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:placement very quickly and the Bitcoin
ecosystem if they want to go on.
682
:We've got two pathways I set up now
they can go a Bitcoin mining pathway
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:or just like kind of a generic Bitcoin
pathway if they want to do marketing
684
:accounting Learning and development
whatever they want to do We want to
685
:get them place them with the Bitcoin
employer or somebody where they can
686
:focus on Bitcoin So those are the three
strategic goals we have with the program.
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:So that's one, we have one
initiative, we've got other
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:initiatives listed on our website.
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:I've got a blue sky initiative to you
know, in Vegas, the reason why I
690
:moved here because Vegas is the number
one tourist destination in the U.
691
:S., number five in the world,
40 million people a year.
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:And I'm like, that's 40 million,
that's 40 million mouths, 80
693
:million eyeballs, assuming everybody
has two eyes, who knows, right?
694
:And I'm like, This, we've
got a multiplier effect.
695
:We've got a network effect, knock
on, whatever, that we can drive here.
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:Because when you go to Vegas, when you
come to Vegas, it's all about money.
697
:It's about fiat.
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:You know you're going to spend money,
you know you're going to waste money,
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:you know you probably could win money.
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:It's all about money.
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:And I want to get Bitcoin.
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:You know, the initiative on the website is
to weave Bitcoin into human consciousness.
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:And people that come to Vegas, if
they get off and see a billboard
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:about Bitcoin, a big black billboard
with an orange B, what is this?
705
:And then everywhere they see
Bitcoin accepted here stickers
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:in Vegas, they're going to go back home.
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:And talk to their friends
and family and there you go.
708
:And so that's raising awareness.
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:So that's why I started, , this Vegas
Bitcoin meetup now, , to do that.
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:The Vegas Bitcoin meetup is
my side hustle and the Bitcoin
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:transformation community is my day job
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:.
We're, we're, we're self funded, you know, we're, we're doing this all on our own,
713
:we're applying for grants and all that.
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:So every little donation we get,
we've got, , the bars, the Bitcoin
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:project on Geyser right now.
716
:So our expenses mainly are around
travel, ? We've got to fly Justin
717
:to Maryland, to Washington, Nevada,
California, wherever to go in these
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:prisons and, and stay a night.
719
:So our expenses are mainly around travel.
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:, so that's how we're doing the nonprofit.
721
:A couple other initiatives and
everything's listed on our website.
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:So I encourage people to go
visit our website, Bitcoin
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:transformation, community.
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:org.
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:Tali: Well, you sound like you're on fire.
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:Very, very infectious.
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:wonderful, wonderful work.
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:I'm curious about how things are going,
how the inmates are receiving this.
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:Stacey: You know, it's really interesting.
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:Like I just told you, I was just doing
the survey analysis a minute ago, and
731
:the comments are really interesting.
732
:Most people are very excited, and
what just, and I'm, you know what
733
:we're getting a lot of comments?
734
:The session was too short.
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:We wanted more.
736
:Come back, come back.
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:And when Justin got home, he told me
that the staff from the correctional
738
:facility sat in his sessions,
and they wanted him to come back.
739
:They're like, whoa, they learned a lot.
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:I didn't even think about that.
741
:When we designed this, I didn't even
occur to me, I was just thinking about
742
:the inmates, the incarcerated people.
743
:, so yeah, so I'm learning, this is, I
never did any work with correctional
744
:facilities, I've never been to prison
a day in my life, I, I say yet.
745
:Because, I might get pissed off
about something and end up in
746
:prison someday, I don't know.
747
:But, , I haven't been in prison yet and
Cardell, our re entry partner, he was
748
:incarcerated for like 16 years, I think.
749
:, , he and Justin, we were talking
one day and they're like, okay,
750
:Cardell, so you're not in state?
751
:I said, nope, I am not going
into a facility, I'm scared
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:to death, not happening.
753
:And Cardell said, well, because
you said that, you're going in.
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:So I'm getting, the peer pressure
is pretty heavy on me right
755
:now, so I'm gonna suck it up.
756
:I'm gonna go in.
757
:I'm scared to death, but you
gotta face your fears, right?
758
:So, I'm gonna go in with them, , someday.
759
:I gotta decide when, but I don't
know if I'm more scared to go in
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:the men's or women's, honestly.
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:Tali: do you think that the biggest
obstacle for these inmates to get
762
:over when they come out is their
scarcity mentality, which you're
763
:trying to correct with Bitcoin?
764
:Stacey: No.
765
:No, the biggest problem
is they need money.
766
:You know, you think of Maslow's
hierarchy, basic needs, they need food.
767
:They may have families out there,
elderly parents, , they've got
768
:to take care of themselves.
769
:They need food, they need
food, clothing, shelter.
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:You have to have USD to do that right now.
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:They need a job to get some money.
772
:They're not in a position
to save so they need money.
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:We got to get them a job.
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:Once they get money, some
dollars to live and survive, then.
775
:They'll and if they're living and
breathing in the Bitcoin ecosystem,
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:they're, they're going to be Bitcoiners.
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:I'm not worried about that at all.
778
:It will happen.
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:, but it's not their mindset
because , they're open to change.
780
:Many of them are, and if they're
not, they're going to end up back
781
:in prison anyway, because after five
years, the recidivism rate in the U.
782
:S.
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:is 77%.
784
:So we gotta stop this.
785
:In five years, if you're
incarcerated, when you get out,
786
:77 percent of people go back.
787
:Justin just made his nine year mark.
788
:That boy's not going back to prison.
789
:, not under my watch, it's not happening.
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:He's not letting it happen anyway.
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:He's just amazing.
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:So he's an inspiration to everybody, And
I think if we can get its basic needs
793
:met and get them out of the cycle that
they've been in, the biggest challenge,
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:I think, for everybody in Bitcoin,
everybody, myself included, is unlearning.
795
:It's what we learned.
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:It's what we knew.
797
:I've been groomed.
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:I've been the fish in the water,
not knowing what water is.
799
:I didn't know I was in this horrible
treadmill feeding the government
800
:and everything my whole life.
801
:Now I've become that old man,
that get off my lawn old man.
802
:I'm so mad about everything right now.
803
:I'm mad at what I've done and what I
didn't do and the quality of life I
804
:didn't lead that I should have led.
805
:Tali: Okay.
806
:So other than, , changing your
professional life, , What are you
807
:noticing after entering the Bitcoin
space that you were not aware of before?
808
:And how has that changed the
practicalities of your life?
809
:Not necessarily the viewpoint,
but the practicalities?
810
:Stacey: Yeah.
811
:I'd say, all pointed
out Bitcoin is happy.
812
:I did it.
813
:I love it here.
814
:I've noticed that, I'm a little less
happy here than I thought that I would be.
815
:And part of the reason is
the gender reason, when you
816
:listen to Twitter spaces.
817
:People aren't really nice to women.
818
:A lot of times the way they treat women.
819
:And I never really looked
at things like that.
820
:So I was just always pretty confident,
secure in my skills and what I could
821
:do and what I bring to the table.
822
:I know what I bring.
823
:And I know my strengths.
824
:I know my areas of improvement.
825
:, and I'm pretty and I'll be
very transparent about that.
826
:But I walked into an
industry where I'm unknown.
827
:I'm not a thought leader.
828
:I wasn't, I'm a thought leader
in my space and I've been in that
829
:space 25 years and I came here.
830
:I'm a nobody.
831
:Justin's the thought leader and
Justin's the influence in the space.
832
:I have no problem stepping back.
833
:And let him drive that.
834
:But even I noticed, I told Justin,
I said, watch, when we get on calls,
835
:some of these guys, , when you talk,
they listen and they'll ask me a
836
:question, but they don't listen to me.
837
:They'll say, Oh, Stacy,
tell me about something.
838
:And then I'll tell them
no follow up, nothing.
839
:I can see their eyes are dead.
840
:Their brains aren't thinking.
841
:They turn to just, okay,
Justin, what about this?
842
:, they're engaging Justin.
843
:They don't engage me.
844
:And I've experienced it many times.
845
:And we'll get on calls right
before you get on the call and
846
:I'll say, Jesse, watch, watch.
847
:This is what's going
to happen on this call.
848
:And he's like, damn, you're right.
849
:You're right.
850
:Exactly what happens.
851
:I call it every time
and I don't like that.
852
:It's not nice.
853
:So I think again, I don't
really, it's nothing personal.
854
:It's nothing personal against me or women.
855
:I think it's again,
that fish in the water.
856
:They don't know they're doing it.
857
:They're not aware and they don't
really care that they're doing it
858
:because nobody's called them out.
859
:everybody, every freaking buddy
brings value to the table.
860
:I don't care who you are.
861
:I always say, I can make
conversation with anybody.
862
:I can find something in common with
anybody in this world, on this planet.
863
:Either we like tacos, we like Bitcoin.
864
:We like true crime, whatever it is.
865
:I can find something to
come with everybody cause
866
:you're another human being.
867
:And I want people to start thinking
about that because what women say is
868
:just as important as what a man says.
869
:And we are just as smart.
870
:We put in just as much work, if not more,
because we're climbing uphill battle.
871
:I mean, the scars I have through my
corporate life, you would not believe.
872
:So it's, sexism and ageism, I'm
experiencing right now, and it's no fun,
873
:it's no fun, and I don't deserve it,
and nobody deserves it, so I just would
874
:like this field, , and it's new, right?
875
:It's kind of a new industry, new
space, but it has been dominated by
876
:white men, and we need to be aware
of that, and we need to bring value.
877
:When international people get on Speak,
people kind of don't listen to them.
878
:Americans don't really listen to them.
879
:I see it.
880
:I hear it in their voice and it's not
right because we're missing opportunities
881
:and we don't want to be like that.
882
:Tali: I guess I see it
slightly differently.
883
:The reason I started this
podcast is because I feel like
884
:there is a void that isn't met.
885
:When I traveled with Scott, and by the
way, he To OrangePillMe, he created a
886
:Bitcoin mining game, which I think maybe
you guys can use when you go into the
887
:prisons because everything is paper.
888
:It's cardboard.
889
:It's a tabletop Bitcoin mining game
that Scott created to orange pill me
890
:because , I'm not a technical thinker.
891
:I think very much by feel and emotion.
892
:And, uh, and he created this game to help
me understand what Bitcoin mining is.
893
:When he finally orange pill me
and I was 100 percent in Bitcoin,
894
:we started traveling to different
Bitcoin meetups to share this tool
895
:and we see it as a bridge builder
between Bitcoiners and their families
896
:because there are a lot of Bitcoiners
that are alone in their It's great.
897
:Intimate social circle.
898
:They're the only one.
899
:And so we see as a conversation
opener as a bridge builder.
900
:So we bring it all over the place
traveling up and down the East
901
:Coast, mostly to share this tool.
902
:And what I noticed was that at a lot of
the gatherings, Bitcoin gatherings, Men
903
:outnumber women, maybe four to one,
sometimes five to one, and there are some
904
:women who, , when I have conversation
with them, tell me that they feel very
905
:uncomfortable being that space, not
necessarily in the way that you perceive,
906
:but just that they feel Like they don't
belong everybody's very friendly.
907
:Everybody's very welcoming, but
the conversation style is very
908
:masculine and women talk differently.
909
:in general, we like the warm and fuzzy.
910
:We want you to ask how our week
has been, not just let's sit down.
911
:Let's talk about the topics are listed.
912
:Let's talk about technology development
and let's talk about politics.
913
:Like, I want to know how your
week was, how did you feel, what
914
:happened in your life kind of thing.
915
:And I see it as like a whiskey and cigar
versus tea and biscuit kind of difference.
916
:And so I just felt, and , a lot of
podcasts are also hosted by men.
917
:And they have a very
particular communication style.
918
:And so I just felt like, women
need women's space for us to
919
:speak openly about how we feel.
920
:, I feel like Bitcoin hyper Bitcoinization
must involve more women for it to happen
921
:because we have influence over the
next generation just by the amount of
922
:hours that we have for them, because
most families still the men work more.
923
:outside the house and women
more inside the house.
924
:That's why I created this podcast.
925
:And in terms of international exposure
and talking to people who travel in and
926
:out, I guess I haven't noticed what you
noticed, but I can see how some people
927
:might be unaware of how they come across.
928
:So yeah, awareness for sure, , would be
really helpful, but I see people just.
929
:You know, you and I will vibe
differently with different people
930
:and that's a, that's an energy thing.
931
:It's not even a conscious decision.
932
:It's just.
933
:We vibe with people that we
feel connected to, right?
934
:And so perhaps that plays a part here,
but yeah, I, I definitely think that
935
:awareness, , would be important.
936
:Stacey: Yeah.
937
:And I, another example is like
the over talking women, right?
938
:They'll let men finish, but they over talk
women a lot, , and I think in some ways
939
:you and I are kind of different, right?
940
:I think I've just been in
the corporate world so long.
941
:I have more of those masculine traits.
942
:I don't need you to ask me how my day.
943
:I'm ready to sit down and talk about what
in the heck did this mean on the news?
944
:What did I read?
945
:, that's the first thing
I start talking about.
946
:I'll sit down at the meetup.
947
:I'm like, I can't open a bank.
948
:Nobody will open our account because I
got Bitcoin in the name of my business.
949
:What am I going to do?
950
:Like I start, and they're like, Oh my God.
951
:Okay.
952
:What bank did you go to?
953
:So the meetup was really kind of helping
me figure some of that stuff out.
954
:, cause I'm just type a about that.
955
:And yeah, I guess in the corporate
world, you know, as a female, I've
956
:just kind of learned that my emotions
and feelings had to take a back
957
:seat for me to thrive in that space.
958
:And so it made me come off
as, it can be more aggressive,
959
:because I know what I want.
960
:I know what I need to do and I know
what the end goal is and I'm going to
961
:get there and you're really not going
to stand in my way because if you do.
962
:You know, I had my best friend once
said to me, she said, , if there
963
:were a nuclear war when all the dust
cleared, it'd be Stacy walking out
964
:carrying four people on her back.
965
:She's like, you are a cockroach.
966
:You'll survive anything and
you'll pull everybody through it.
967
:And I was like, Oh my God, is that Hans?
968
:Receive is like, yeah, it is.
969
:And I'm like, oh, okay.
970
:So I'm softer and fuzzier now than I used
to be, but I used to be pretty darn bad.
971
:So I'm better now.
972
:I'm more humane now than I used to be.
973
:Tali: But again, there are going
to be people who relate much more
974
:to you than somebody else who
might be very warm and fuzzy.
975
:So, yeah, that's our space.
976
:we are just filled with.
977
:Regular human beings and regular human
beings are all very different and
978
:that's good, It's good we have someone
like you and it's good that we have
979
:someone who's the opposite of you.
980
:So
981
:Stacey: Yeah, my daughter's more like you.
982
:She's Taught me a lot.
983
:She's taught me a lot to calm down
and focus and live in the moment.
984
:I changed a lot because of her.
985
:And this has been a great influence.
986
:And I think , it's definitely
made me a better person.
987
:It's made me better to be around.
988
:I'll tell you that much.
989
:Cause I was like
corporate leadership mode.
990
:Let's go.
991
:Tali: Type a plus plus Okay, so what would
you say to someone a woman who is Bitcoin
992
:Stacey: about purchasing Bitcoin
or getting the Bitcoin space,
993
:Tali: either one
994
:Stacey: gEtting in the
space, a hundred percent.
995
:, do it.
996
:I don't get my feelings hurt that easily.
997
:I'll get worked up about
stuff, but then it's over with.
998
:But what I like here is this
is really a new space, right?
999
:It's uncharted territories,
and it's really fun.
:
00:47:18,865 --> 00:47:22,475
What Jus and I are doing, nobody's
telling us we're doing it right or wrong.
:
00:47:22,735 --> 00:47:25,255
We're doing what we think
is the right thing to do.
:
00:47:25,585 --> 00:47:29,825
His experience and my experience, we
have the skills, the capability, and
:
00:47:29,825 --> 00:47:33,775
the connections to make this happen,
and we're doing it the way we want.
:
00:47:34,345 --> 00:47:35,335
We don't have a boss.
:
00:47:35,745 --> 00:47:37,385
The boss we have is Satoshi.
:
00:47:38,055 --> 00:47:41,385
So, we've got the Bitcoin
ethos, it's on our website.
:
00:47:41,615 --> 00:47:44,415
As long as we adhere to
our ethos, we're good.
:
00:47:45,135 --> 00:47:46,965
And, I love it.
:
00:47:47,027 --> 00:47:49,268
this treating women thing
is worse probably in the
:
00:47:49,268 --> 00:47:50,538
corporate world than it is here.
:
00:47:50,798 --> 00:47:54,188
The stuff I've had to deal with , but
I think it's a great place to be.
:
00:47:54,408 --> 00:47:56,348
It's really fun, it's exciting.
:
00:47:56,828 --> 00:47:58,098
, so, I encourage women.
:
00:47:58,138 --> 00:48:01,803
And we need Female mindset in
here we just need diversity.
:
00:48:01,813 --> 00:48:03,663
That's all when we're
building on our board.
:
00:48:03,663 --> 00:48:06,923
I'm like we need some diversity I
don't want to look at myself in the
:
00:48:06,923 --> 00:48:09,983
mirror all day That's not going to get
us anywhere here suck our own exhaust
:
00:48:10,393 --> 00:48:14,643
isn't going to be good , so definitely
get into the space and invest in
:
00:48:14,643 --> 00:48:17,303
bitcoin, , one of the main inspirations,
:
00:48:17,403 --> 00:48:21,623
part of the reason why Bitcoin
resonated with me was my best friend.
:
00:48:21,893 --> 00:48:24,843
I've got a few best friends, but one of
my best friends is a woman from India.
:
00:48:24,986 --> 00:48:31,626
Mid 40s and when she was in her early 40s,
we find out that, she had an arranged
:
00:48:31,626 --> 00:48:33,526
marriage at 19 years old in India.
:
00:48:33,886 --> 00:48:38,546
So her mom sold her off, moved
to America, married a 26 year old
:
00:48:38,556 --> 00:48:40,366
Indian man, , when she was 19.
:
00:48:40,396 --> 00:48:42,426
So essentially, you know,
this man raised her.
:
00:48:42,546 --> 00:48:43,276
She was 19.
:
00:48:43,526 --> 00:48:47,436
she did the, stayed at home, be , the
wife, have the kids and all that.
:
00:48:47,656 --> 00:48:53,766
We find out when she's like in her early
40s that, he's an alcoholic and a lot of
:
00:48:53,776 --> 00:48:58,476
fraud, like used her name on the credit
cards, took all this debt under her name.
:
00:48:58,906 --> 00:49:01,746
And he ended up being hospitalized
because he was going to die.
:
00:49:02,046 --> 00:49:03,696
And the mom from India flies over.
:
00:49:03,706 --> 00:49:05,486
This guy's like 45 years old.
:
00:49:05,836 --> 00:49:08,666
The mom from India flies over and
gets him, takes him back to India.
:
00:49:09,156 --> 00:49:11,936
And it's been Probably eight years.
:
00:49:11,986 --> 00:49:13,306
They've never heard from him still.
:
00:49:14,126 --> 00:49:21,056
So here's this woman that came to the
country, never had a job has two kids.
:
00:49:21,326 --> 00:49:23,626
Her credit is totally destroyed.
:
00:49:24,526 --> 00:49:25,236
What are you going to do?
:
00:49:26,106 --> 00:49:27,726
It was devastating.
:
00:49:28,286 --> 00:49:32,476
So Naturally, I roll up my sleeves,
get down there, clean, literally roll
:
00:49:32,476 --> 00:49:35,726
up my sleeves, getting to clean up
that pukey basement that man lived
:
00:49:35,726 --> 00:49:40,036
in, cleaned up his house, try to get
her straight, she can't get divorced
:
00:49:40,036 --> 00:49:41,086
because she's out of the country.
:
00:49:41,436 --> 00:49:44,906
The attorneys couldn't even help her
because now she's low income, her credit's
:
00:49:44,906 --> 00:49:47,956
destroyed, she's got to file bankruptcy,
even though she never had a credit card in
:
00:49:47,956 --> 00:49:51,306
her own name in her whole life, never had
a job, it's like, what am I going to do?
:
00:49:51,786 --> 00:49:53,406
And I said, we're going to get you a job.
:
00:49:54,081 --> 00:49:57,061
She was very smart, brilliant,
like from a technology
:
00:49:57,061 --> 00:49:58,861
perspective, passionate about it.
:
00:49:59,431 --> 00:50:03,211
So we just said that she worked
for my company in the marketing
:
00:50:03,211 --> 00:50:05,361
department, used me as a reference.
:
00:50:05,411 --> 00:50:08,531
We got our job as a bank
teller, little hourly job.
:
00:50:08,691 --> 00:50:11,431
She got in, within two months
got promotion to manager.
:
00:50:11,761 --> 00:50:14,631
And then a year later, she called
me, she's like, Stacy, I passed
:
00:50:14,631 --> 00:50:18,931
some, I forgot, some IT certification
exams and got hired as an IT
:
00:50:18,931 --> 00:50:19,921
consultant in Washington, D.
:
00:50:19,921 --> 00:50:20,271
C.
:
00:50:21,356 --> 00:50:25,736
And so we packed her kids and the U Haul
up and shipped her off to Washington, D.
:
00:50:25,736 --> 00:50:26,146
C.
:
00:50:26,966 --> 00:50:32,623
And I was like, oh my God, if she had had
Bitcoin, it would have been a lot better.
:
00:50:33,093 --> 00:50:34,913
A lot better situation.
:
00:50:34,923 --> 00:50:38,843
And I know this is mild compared to some
of the international stories we hear.
:
00:50:39,143 --> 00:50:39,853
Mild.
:
00:50:40,053 --> 00:50:43,773
But that's something where I looked at
it and I was like, this isn't a savings
:
00:50:43,773 --> 00:50:45,613
technology like it is for the rest of us.
:
00:50:45,953 --> 00:50:47,213
It would have been a survival.
:
00:50:47,253 --> 00:50:47,993
It would have helped her.
:
00:50:47,993 --> 00:50:49,653
It would have given her
hope and motivation.
:
00:50:50,163 --> 00:50:51,093
It would make me feel better.
:
00:50:51,093 --> 00:50:53,673
It would save me some money, too,
cause she would have, felt better
:
00:50:53,673 --> 00:50:55,933
about herself, , and been able
to take care of herself and she
:
00:50:55,933 --> 00:50:57,683
couldn't and it was horrible.
:
00:50:57,963 --> 00:51:00,973
, so that's kind of the part of the
reason that inspired me to get into
:
00:51:00,973 --> 00:51:04,913
this and to support women and Bitcoin
because we're held back and held
:
00:51:04,913 --> 00:51:09,763
down sometime, not of our own doing
just because of, our circumstances.
:
00:51:12,423 --> 00:51:15,723
Tali: Thanks for joining us today . If
the discussion with our guests
:
00:51:15,773 --> 00:51:19,233
resonated with you and you would
like to dive deeper into the world of
:
00:51:19,263 --> 00:51:23,543
Bitcoin, don't miss out on joining the
Orange Hatter Women's Reading Club.
:
00:51:23,963 --> 00:51:25,683
The meetup link is in the show notes.
:
00:51:26,113 --> 00:51:30,133
Also, if there are women in your life
whom you think would both enjoy and
:
00:51:30,153 --> 00:51:34,133
benefit from learning more about Bitcoin,
please share Orange Hatter with them.
:
00:51:34,793 --> 00:51:36,343
Until next time, bye!