Episode 76
Vivian - "I belong to the one-child generation and felt massive guilt...until Bitcoin"
"Vivian Chang's Bitcoin Journey: A Quest for the Human Side"
Introduction:
Vivian Chang's journey into the world of Bitcoin, from her roots in Beijing to her current home in Canada. Join us as we follow Vivian's path through key insights and moments in her Bitcoin adventure.
1. Early Beginnings in China:
- Born and raised in Beijing, Vivian witnessed the transition from cash to digital payments like WeChat and Alipay.
2. The Debt Dilemma:
- Digital payments brought challenges, notably easy access to loans and many young individuals found themselves trapped in debt, highlighting the complexities of the digital financial landscape.
3. Embracing Bitcoin:
- In 2021, Vivian delved into Bitcoin despite initial technical hurdles and realized that Bitcoin's true power lay in its human side, offering hope and autonomy.
4. Bitcoin as a Beacon of Hope:
- Vivian noticed that Bitcoin brought hope, especially to those in emerging markets plagued by high inflation.
- It offered individuals the chance to lead more meaningful lives and act on their beliefs.
5. Bridging the Gender Gap:
- Recognizing the gender imbalance in the Bitcoin community, Vivian aims to become a great moderator.
- Her goal is to ask insightful questions and make the community more inclusive for all.
Contact Vivian:
@btcviv
https://www.youtube.com/@LifewithBitcoin
https://www.wavlake.com
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Transcript
Hi, everyone.
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:Welcome to Orange Hatter.
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:Today you're listening to a
conversation I had with Vivian.
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:thank you, Vivian, for coming on the show.
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:I'm so excited to dive right in
because I think you have a really
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:interesting story to share.
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:Can you start by giving
us a little intro on your
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:Vivian: background?
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:Yeah, for sure.
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:So my name is Vivian Chang, and
I was born and raised in Beijing.
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:And then later on spent my
entire adulthood abroad in
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:North America and Europe.
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:So right now I'm in West Coast, Canada.
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:I'm relatively new in Bitcoin.
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:Actually, I'm only a class 2021, but
have have the privilege to really delve
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:into the space in the past few years.
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:So right now I work In marketing and PR
for Bitcoin companies and I'm, I'm running
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:my own podcast called Life with Bitcoin
focus on the human side of Bitcoin.
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:Tell
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:Tali: Us more about Life with Bitcoin.
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:Vivian: Yeah.
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:So I was working with many
Bitcoin companies and because
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:I'm in marketing and PR.
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:So I'm usually the one who was like
reaching out to different conferences
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:and podcasts to try to place my
clients onto the show as speakers.
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:And what I realized is that there's
so many great Bitcoin content out
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:there, but a lot of them are very
technical and they talk about what's
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:been happening today in our society.
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:And those are very timely and
relevant and important content.
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:What I realized is that not everybody is
technical, not everybody likes numbers.
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:And let's face it.
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:We live in a quite chaotic
and can be depressing worlds.
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:And I find these content a little bit.
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:stressful sometimes personally, and they
are like, and should anxiety inducing.
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:So I actually feel like, Oh my God,
like what I'm going to do in this
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:world after watching these content.
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:And I, when I first got into the
space the biggest hurdle for me to get
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:Bitcoin was actually the technical side.
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:I'm not a technical person at all.
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:I didn't grow up liking numbers
and I wasn't good with numbers.
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:So for the longest of time, I
didn't take the time to learn
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:it because I thought it was.
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:Too technical for me because I'm not
from a computer science background where
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:I'm not a cryptographer and it is just
too complicated for me to even bother
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:to try it until I'm in the space and I
realized this is not the case and it was
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:actually the human side of Bitcoin that
get me hooked provides how it provides
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:freedom, how it provides options.
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:For people, not only in
emerging markets, but also for
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:basically everyone in the world.
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:And this is when I realized, oh,
we're there's, there's a gap in
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:this space that we, we should focus
more on the human side of Bitcoin.
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:Cause if you think about it, it
is the Bitcoiners, the individual
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:people, the combination of individual
people are driving this force
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:is all of us building, hodling.
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:Spreading the word and bringing
new people onto the space that the
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:wall ultimately make the difference.
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:So what I really wanted to do is to
focus on individual transformations,
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:focus on individual Bitcoiners
journeys and change and transformations
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:through the lives of Bitcoin.
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:And we're also very early to the
point that we don't necessarily see
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:a lot of Bitcoiners in real life.
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:So I thought it's a great opportunity
for us to get to know Bitcoiners
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:individually and to learn from Bitcoiners.
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:Tali: Yeah, our a mission is so aligned.
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:Very, very exciting to be talking
with you, especially as women.
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:I think we feel very isolated in even
within the small space of the Bitcoiners.
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:And so connecting with
other women is so important.
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:So I just want to applaud you.
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:I think you're doing amazing work
and, you know, keep going, keep going.
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:This is very exciting.
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:Do you mind if we dive just a
little bit into your background?
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:Just, you know, setting a stage for people
to understand where you're coming from.
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:You're originally from Beijing.
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:Can you tell us a little bit more
from the money side of things,
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:what life was like growing up,
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:Vivian: right,
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:growing up.
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:I guess I was a very
normal kid growing up.
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:And I belong to the one child generation.
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:So I'm the only child in my family.
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:It's, I guess it's It's good in a way
because they have all the resources
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:and love and cared only for me
because I'm the only child, right?
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:I think growing up, I've, what
I've witnessed about money is the,
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:the transition from cash economy
to a digital currency economy.
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:I remember when I was growing
up when I was a kid, then
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:people were using cash all over.
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:I don't think China has a particular.
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:Phase of credit card, even so the
transition between cash to mobile
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:payment happened almost instantly.
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:Or within a very short period of time,
And most people don't have a credit card.
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:They literally just transitioned from
cash to paying with WeChat Alipay those
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:mobile payment giants that's out there.
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:And even just a couple of years back
when I went back, there are vendors.
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:They don't take cash anymore.
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:If you want to buy something with
cash, they would actually say
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:that, Oh, we don't take cash.
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:You pay with your WeChat.
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:And it's weird because.
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:Cash is fiat and they
don't even take fiat.
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:So the mobile payment side of things
already got so sophisticated that
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:you can't go out without your phone.
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:You need to tap your, like traffic card,
the, the transportation card when you're
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:getting on a subway, getting on a bus, and
you need to literally pay for everything
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:with your phone on WeChat or Alipay for
caps some places still take cash, but
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:I've experienced in the past is that
they don't take cash anymore, and if you
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:have like a 100 yuan bill, And sometimes
they simply don't have the change and
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:they wouldn't even let go of the business
cause you just cannot deal with money.
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:So it was definitely very
interesting growing up witnessing.
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:That change and versus in Western world,
like in Canada credit card is very normal.
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:Some people have multiple but in
China, I don't see many people even
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:have the need to get a credit card.
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:Tali: I did not realize that.
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:That's, that's a really interesting fact.
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:I feel like using a credit card changes
our perception of what money actually is.
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:So when we spend money, if you have
a lot of cash and you're handing
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:it out as you're spending it,
you feel the pain of it leaving.
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:But when you're swiping the credit card,
you don't necessarily feel the pain.
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:So if in your culture, you completely
skipped that credit card phase, what
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:kind of psychological change toward money
did you notice or not notice between
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:using cash that they can feel in their
hands and just swiping with a phone.
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:Vivian: Right.
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:The process will be the same, like the
trend, the psychological transition
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:will be the same because now you're
removing the face of actually giving
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:out the money and it's all very digital.
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:So the, the pain of spending
is obviously removed.
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:And with credit card, obviously
you can kind of have a limit.
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:You have a credit limit and you can.
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:Spend more money before you even have it.
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:And even though trying to kind of
skip that phase of having credit card,
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:there are many like businesses that are
dedicated to small loans and they make
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:it so user friendly that you can just.
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:Borrow money at a rate very, very
fast without much credit available.
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:So this is another problem that the
young generation of China is facing
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:is that they are kind of getting
sucked into these little loans.
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:And then before they realized.
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:They're like, Oh my God, I'm, I owe
2, 000, which is a lot for let's
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:say a 20 year old who's, , still
receiving money from their parents.
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:But want that extra upgrade
for lifestyles and they get
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:hooked into these small loans.
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:And then when I realized it's like, Oh
my God, I can't, I can't deal with this.
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:And the interest pile up.
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:So the pain of spending money is
definitely reduced by going digital.
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:And even though the credit
card phase is skipped, people
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:still are struggling with debt.
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:Tali: That's interesting.
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:So it's really kind of
like a credit card, but.
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:Not called a credit card because they
are still dealing with credit, right?
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:Yeah.
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:So, okay, so you went into
Bitcoin through your job.
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:You were initially intimidated
because of the technical side.
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:How did you overcome that and become
so convinced that you are now running
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:your own podcast about Bitcoin?
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:Right.
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:Vivian: So I'm among the lucky group
because I see so many people that are
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:Trying to work for Bitcoin, trying to
switch from a fiat job to a Bitcoin job.
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:And I did it backwards.
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:So I was freelancing at the time and I got
a part time gig servicing Bitcoin company.
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:Without any knowledge or experience,
but I'm, I'm someone who's always
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:on the lookout of new things.
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:I like to surprise myself.
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:So I pick up the job and for
a while I didn't need to get
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:into too much details of it.
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:And I struggle a lot.
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:Like I remember walking on the
street, listening to this podcast,
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:talking about blockchain one on one.
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:And I was just so overwhelmed and, and
bored, to be honest, and I, I just, I feel
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:like I, I need to learn about this thing
that I'm not particularly interested in.
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:And that lasted for a few months.
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:And I think it's really started to shift
after I understand, I understand the
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:technology enough to the point that I know
that, oh, you can use it for remittances,
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:you can use it as a store value to fight
against inflation and that's during COVID.
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:I'm the only child in my, in my household
and growing up, I feel this massive guilt.
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:Because I feel very fortunate to have a
family full of love and care and support.
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:I'm financially provided for.
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:I have good resources and
opportunities around me versus,
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:you know, kids in Africa, kids
in many underdeveloped markets.
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:They're starving.
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:There's no electricity or water.
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:And these things bother me.
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:So I...
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:Avoided news for years, for
years and years and years.
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:Like growing up, I
didn't really watch news.
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:I tried to disassociate myself
from it just to avoid the massive
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:guilt that I feel as a survivor
or as a, as a lucky person.
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:Until I realized, Oh, like what
Bitcoin is and what impact it has
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:for these markets, these places.
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:And I got hooked by how much option it
gave to people, how much autonomy it gives
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:people to actually pursue what's important
in life, like love, meaningful connection,
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:build a legacy, self esteem, confidence.
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:Like I can go on all day, but these
are the things that Bitcoin actually
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:eventually allow you to pursue.
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:Versus before you're just really
struggling to put a roof on
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:your head, to really provide.
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:materially for your family and loved ones.
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:And there's very little energy and
resources left to pursue and really
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:go after what it's like to be a human.
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:And by working in the space that I'm
lucky enough to start to make an impact,
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:and that's highly fulfilling and gave me
a sense of purpose Everybody complains
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:about not enough women in Bitcoin and
I feel that myself, but they do exist.
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:I've seen so many great women in
a space that I've connected with.
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:We are out here.
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:It's just, we're kind of outnumbered right
now, but it's not going to be forever.
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:And this is partially because the content
out there are so technical and political
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:or politically driven or where they talk
a lot about the macro side of Bitcoin.
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:And it's all good and well,
but for women, we approach the
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:world in a different landscape.
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:Like, we are just completely
different from, from men, and we
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:approach world in our own philosophy
in a more emotional and fluid way
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:and we focus on the little things.
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:while having a, having
a low time preference.
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:So these things are not as
well represented in the space.
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:So, I saw the gap.
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:I feel like this is something
that I can contribute to.
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:And for the longest of time,
I've been trying to find an angle
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:for myself to be in this space.
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:How can I contribute even further?
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:And the thing is, I'm not necessarily
a speaker because I'm not particularly
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:knowledgeable in many of the
aspects that Bitcoiners talk about.
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:However what I've also realized is that
there are a lot of great speakers in the,
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:in the space, but they're not enough.
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:Great moderators.
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:And I want to be that person.
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:I want to be that person.
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:I want to be able to ask good questions.
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:I want to be able to evoke
insightful thinking to dig into the
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:personal stories of Bitcoin to the
point that people feel relatable.
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:People feel encouraged in their day to day
life to keep huddling, to keep fighting.
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:To connect with underrated Bitcoiners
in the space and to share their
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:personal stories, either they work
in the space or not and share with
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:everybody that you're not alone.
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:We're in this together and there are so
many Bitcoiners out there living their
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:lives, trying to be their best self and.
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:To gain strength from it and myself
as well, like I've gained so much
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:good strength and energy from the
people I've, I've been connected
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:with in the past few months.
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:And I'm really grateful
for the opportunity.
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:Tali: I think it's so true that
men and women do think differently
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:and they do approach Bitcoin
from such a different lens.
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:And like you said, there are
Bitcoiner women out there.
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:They're less vocal.
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:Maybe they're even invisible because
they value their privacy above all.
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:But they are out there and
we are going to reach them.
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:We're going to unite them.
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:I'm going to share our strength,
our stories, which is why you
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:and I are talking together today.
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:Can you think of an example of someone
that you have encountered that
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:their outlook in life has transformed
because of their contact with Bitcoin.
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:Vivian: Oh, yeah, of course.
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:So I work with a lot of emerging markets,
and that includes people in Latin America,
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:Africa, Southeast Asia, and all over
the world, like Middle East countries.
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:General consensus is that sometimes they
are, they were not In the space per se.
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:And then before Bitcoin, it was very much
of a, I don't know if I have an option.
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:So I have to, I have to play along
because I have no other option.
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:But then after Bitcoin what I realized
is their whole outlook on life would
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:change because now they have, they have
the opportunity to opt out, to preserve
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:their, their wealth, especially in
countries with very high inflation.
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:They were able to really preserve their
wealth, and to have the luxury to think on
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:a low time preference, because if you're
in countries like Venezuela, Argentina was
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:hyper hyper inflation, even if you want
to adapt a low time preference lifestyle
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:is not possible, because you have to
provide and you have to get the most
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:of what you what what's in your pocket.
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:So it's you can have a low time
preference mindset, but it's just
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:simply impossible to implement.
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:But Bitcoin actually enables people
to to live that life, to really
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:start to act upon their beliefs.
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:And that's huge because it's the
alignment of action and beliefs that
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:will create the most productivity.
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:Otherwise, you're going to be
constantly frustrated and hopeless.
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:What I encounter the most from
people in these markets are one word.
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:It's hope is that
Bitcoin brings them hope.
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:Otherwise.
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:It's just coping.
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:Otherwise it's just reacting
to their current circumstances
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:without a long term perspective.
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:They're just getting by by the day.
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:And it's, it's frustrating.
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:But Bitcoin actually offers them
hope and a positive outlook for their
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:own life and their family's lives.
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:And to have hope in anyone's
life, it's a huge thing.
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:Tali: Yeah, for sure.
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:Just to clarify for the listeners
out there who are not familiar with
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:that concept of time preference, low
versus high, would you mind going
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:into a little bit of detail about
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:Vivian: that?
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:Yes.
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:When we identify ourselves as Bitcoiners,
we're not just investing in Bitcoin
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:we hold a collection of values and
beliefs that make us Bitcoiners
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:and one of them, one of the most
important ones is low time preference.
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:So low time preference is kind
of like delayed gratification.
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:It means that you're willing to
sacrifice today in order to get.
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:To gain more in the future,
and when you have a high time
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:preference, it means you want to...
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:Maximize the satisfaction today versus
in a low time preference standard.
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:You're constantly
thinking about the future.
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:You are not in a rush to
see results right away.
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:And you're willing to wait
and be patient and work.
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:To secure more prosperity in the future.
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:And women naturally have that because when
they start a family, have kids like kids,
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:don't just grow like overnight, right?
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:It takes decades and decades of care
and love and support for a kid to
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:really mature and have their own life.
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:And women naturally have that low
time preference when they become moms.
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:And I've talked to many people.
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:And they've told me that women moms
actually get Bitcoin way faster than
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:the dads because they're open minded.
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:They're constantly thinking about the
future, what's the best for their family
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:and children to the point that they
already have a low time preference to
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:adopt themselves into the Bitcoin mindset.
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:They just don't know it yet.
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:,
Tali: it's really interesting you said that because I have
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:observed the opposite, actually.
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:So my husband and I, we went to two
homeschooling conferences last year,
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:and the total attendees of those two
events combined were about 25, 000.
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:So pretty massive number of people.
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:And , what we found was almost every
single family that came by, the dad
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:was the person who was in charge of
finances and when I tried to talk to
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:the moms about Bitcoin, she would say,
well, my husband handles the finances.
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:And then, and then like, that's it,
that, that ended the conversation.
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:And I have found that to be true in
a lot of places that we have visited.
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:There seems to be this sort of
delegation a natural delegation
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:because When you're running a household
and you've got kids running around,
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:you've got to divide and conquer.
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:Everybody can't do everything.
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:And so you have the men, working
and handling their finances, the
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:wife or the woman would, do the
childcare and mostly, mostly, not all
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:the time, there's a generalization,
but that's what I have found.
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:And that's one of the reasons
why I'm personally working
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:hard to reach moms out there.
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:Because like you said, they are already.
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:Looking at the world in the same way,
and yet right now, it's a delegated task.
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:Understanding money,
understanding investment.
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:It's a delegated task, but they have
direct influence over their kids
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:through just the amount of time that
they have with their kids being , the
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:majority caretaker, mostly, mostly.
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:And so that's an interesting
observation that you have made.
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:Yeah, tell us more, like
give us some examples.
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:Are you able to describe some people that
you have come across and maybe you and
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:I can put our heads together and see how
we can communicate better to one audience
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:Vivian: or another.
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:Yeah.
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:So I learned about this
through one of my guests.
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:So I talked to Billy Junjo
and he's a content creator
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:for Bitcoin in South Korea.
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:And he creates Bitcoin content on
YouTube and, and a Bitcoin newsletter.
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:And what he shared is that that the moms
in the household are more open minded.
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:And because they, they are the primary
caregivers in the, in the household,
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:that they're naturally thinking about.
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:the future of the kids more
the future of the family more.
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:And they have and women are,
women generally have less ego.
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:They don't have as much ego
as, as man to always be right.
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:They don't have the
need to always be right.
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:And when versus, and that's what he
observed too, is that the man
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:usually have this mindset of,
of I already know everything.
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:And I don't want to admit that I
have something that I don't know.
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:So there's the ego parts that men have
to get across when they come into the
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:space of Bitcoin, because it's a very
complex subject and it takes a lot
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:of, you need to properly go down the
rabbit hole and make time and effort
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:to learn about this before you can
fully understand, and a lot of people.
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:May not be able to get past the ego
stage to admit that everything they've
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:told what they're used to around them
is a lie and that takes courage and that
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:takes The ability to unlearn yourself
and not everybody can do that quickly.
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:Tali: That's really interesting.
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:I wonder if that has some
cultural aspect to that.
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:So Scott and I, when we travel, we
were experiencing that most Bitcoin
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:meetups are, I would say 90 percent men.
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:It's very rare for us to come
across a meetup that has at
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:least 40 to 50 percent women.
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:Very, very unusual.
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:And mostly what we have encountered is.
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:The men would come to the
meetup and the wife would stay
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:at home and watch the kids.
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:Yeah, that's what I've seen too.
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:Yeah.
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:So we're trying to have more family
events Scott and I have a meetup.
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:If we can get the whole family involved,
then it is no longer a man or woman thing.
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:It's just a family thing.
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:Vivian: That's such a good idea
because if you think about all these
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:Bitcoin conferences if any of them
are listening is that if you have a
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:dedicated babysitting area where you
get all of the kids together and do like
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:kids workshops for Bitcoin, and we have
seen a common creators for children's
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:book in the space and maybe we can get
them together to host something online.
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:to have the kids create a piece of art to
go through the book together and have some
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:opportunities for them to get exposed to
Bitcoin in a engaging and informative way
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:to the level that they can understand and
really grasp the idea in a very young age.
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:The potential is huge because
you're spending the least amount
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:of effort and making the most
amount of impact in the next
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:20
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:Tali: years, right?
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:that's what I observed when we went
to the homeschooling conferences is
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:you have the main event, the main hall
where all the vendors are, and then
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:they have the speakers and everything,
but they have a dedicated children's
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:room and it's divided into, I think,
two or three groups based on age.
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:And while the parents are roaming around,
the exhibit hall, the children are
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:building friendships and doing activities
and they look forward to the conference
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:with their parents and it's not a alright
mom or dad They're going and we're gonna
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:be stuck with a babysitter kind of thing
So if we can make our Bitcoin conferences
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:family friendly and have that right
the parents go into exhibit hall they
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:go to the you know, the workshops and
then The children, like you said, they
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:have games and authors reading stories
and crafts and things, just exposing
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:them so that it's a conference that
everybody looks forward to every year.
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:Let's talk about your parents.
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:Are they orange pilled?
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:Are they resistant?
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:What's going on with
the older generation?
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:Right.
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:Vivian: They're not orange pilled.
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:I would put it that way.
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:They know that I work in Bitcoin
and . They think I'm living a very
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:mysterious lifestyle because they
cannot fully grasp what I'm doing.
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:They know I'm hosting a talk
show and I've recorded episodes
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:at home when they're around.
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:I think at this point in life,
cause I've been abroad, I've been
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they've, they've have enough, a
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:lot of respect and support of how
far I've already made for myself.
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:And they're very proud of
that and I appreciate that.
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:And to the point that they respect and
support how I choose to live my life.
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:even though they don't fully understand
what I'm doing or see some risk.
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:And like many people out there, they're,
they have a slightly skeptical view.
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:They don't know how
stable this industry is.
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:They don't know.
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:If it's safe both legally and in a lot
of other aspects they don't have a
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:complete understanding of what Bitcoin is.
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:And I try, I don't really actively
try to orange pill them because
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:it's, more than just Bitcoin.
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:It's not just Bitcoin.
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:If I need, if I want them to fully
understand Bitcoin, it's hours
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:and hours and topics after topics
of their own belief systems.
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:And I don't want to just poke the,
the beehive and get all bruised by
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:and they wouldn't like it either.
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:And they've gone through
lives long enough to.
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:To believe in what they believe in, and
I'm not going to necessarily meddle with
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:that, and ruin our own relationships I
feel like for me, I'd rather be a daughter
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:to them, and I love them, I care for them,
and I support their decisions in life and
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:I want the freedom to live my own life I
try to keep our relationship very loving
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:and caring and try not to get, like, I'm
a peace seeker, like, I don't try to get
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:into fights actively with them, to the
point that I actually spend very little
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:time talking about Bitcoin with them, and
both of them, they don't speak English,
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:, I will ask them to watch my show if they
were to speak English but they don't.
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:So, they will just have to trust
me that , I'm using my best
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:Tali: judgment.
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:That's a very healthy attitude
toward orange pilling.
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:I think everybody has
their own journey, right?
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:You never know what might trigger
them to start asking questions.
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:So yeah, exactly.
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:What about your friends?
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:What is it like talking to
other 20 year olds about
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:Vivian: Bitcoin?
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:Right.
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:So my current friend group they are, some
of them are Bitcoin investors and they are
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:huddlers, but they wouldn't necessarily
be Bitcoiners, like they wouldn't
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:identify themselves as Bitcoiners.
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:They're not quite familiar with
the values, my belief systems
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:of the, the Bitcoin ecosystem,
and that's totally fine.
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:I would consider them normie friends
or friends with a good Bitcoin
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:exposure, and that's great financially.
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:I am not toxic at all, like you
can, in my own social circle,
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:if you're not on Twitter.
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:And follow me on Twitter.
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:Like they can typically have
no idea that I'm a big quitter.
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:Like in my personal Instagram, it's
a private account and there's like
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:zero Bitcoin content out there.
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:So I try, I'm, I'm not
like toxic in that way.
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:To have to like never shout about
Bitcoin and talk about Bitcoin all
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:the time, like I'm not that person.
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:I'm already working in the space enough
and I like to expose myself In different
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:aspects, and I don't think I'm fully
defined with only the label Bitcoiner,
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:and I have like many other sides outside
of my work and in my social life.
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:But I make sure that people around
me that I care about do know I'm a
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:Bitcoiner to the point that if they
have any questions, I make myself
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:available to answer these questions.
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:I make myself available to help them set
up things cause it can be very confusing,
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:all the address and copy and paste and
the anxiety of setting up a transaction.
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:Like I've been through all of that, so
I'm there to help them if they need.
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:But I'm not going to be the person
that actively like hold the flag
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:of talking about this all the time.
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:Tali: Again, I feel like that is
such a healthy way of viewing it.
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:my husband and I, when we talked to our
four kids, we have this sense of urgency
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:because we have lived through, decades
of experience in the current financial
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:system and we've felt the pain of it.
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:Being so unfair.
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:And so we have this sense of urgency to
pass on our knowledge and our wisdom.
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:And of course, the more you try to
do that, the more your audience is
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:going to be like, Whoa, Whoa, that's
too much, you know, so I should take
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:the advice from you and just like,
chill, just sit back and relax.
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:Vivian: I think at the end of the
day, it's about what they care about.
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:And like I'm coming from a marketing
background and the number one
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:thing we kind of learned is that
you have to understand what your
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:target audience wants in this case.
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:Like, what do they care about?
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:Because just like I started
live with Bitcoin to focus on
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:the human side, because I don't
care about the technical stuff.
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:Like I don't care about.
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:Like, banks falling down, it's
too much, too much for me.
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:But I'm, I'm interested in humans.
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:I'm interested in human stories and
how they've become who they are.
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:So you just have to understand
what they care about and what they
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:think is cool, especially for kids.
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:Like being cool is a big thing.
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:And then try to spin Bitcoin
or find the commonality between
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:what they think is cool.
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:And with Bitcoin, and they'll
be like, Oh, I want to be cool.
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:And how can I be cool through Bitcoin?
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:And then they will be
like, more interested,
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:Tali: right?
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:Okay, so how can you be cool with Bitcoin?
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:What would you suggest?
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:For kids?
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:Well, for I would say high schoolers
and up, I think little kids are easy.
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:They are so easy.
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:They have no filter that
they have put up no walls.
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:You tell them something like okay I
love working with the little kids,
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:but I'm talking teenagers and up.
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:Vivian: Mm hmm well, just thinking
on the spot, maybe like sometimes
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:like a Bitcoin as a payment message.
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:So for example, if they're into, let's
say K pop, and then they want to buy this
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:piece of CD or this, this poster from
someone on the internet, and then you
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:can pay them by Bitcoin, and he arrives
instantly or, or this person only takes
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:Bitcoin, you have to buy it with Bitcoin.
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:Otherwise, you cannot have
this CD that you really want.
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:You have to find a use
case there for them.
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:So that can be one thing.
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:And then maybe when you give the
money, but instead of give them
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:pocket money, you say, I'll only
give you this money in Bitcoin.
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:And then if they want the money,
they'll have to, like, figure out
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:themselves how to receive, right?
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:Because they want the money.
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:They will go through the hustle just so
that they can receive that pocket money.
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:And then they go, actually go
through that learning process
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:themselves and figuring things out.
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:It's a great entry point for Bitcoin.
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:Later on when if they have some
Bitcoin left, they're going to be
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:saying, Oh, like it's going up.
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:It has doubled and tripled.
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:And then they'll be like, Oh,
this is this is something because
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:normal money doesn't do that.
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:Tali: That's so true.
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:Here's my concern, though.
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:I have four kids.
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:The first one I was able to orange pill,
she went into Bitcoin as it was sliding
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:downward when I went from 68 to 16.
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:And so if we were to give them
a wallet and they're watching
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:their money go down the slide.
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:What do you tell them?
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:Because it's still going
up and down right now.
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:Vivian: Yes.
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:And this is particularly why I,
why I'm not toxic and talk about
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:Bitcoin with all of my friends
because of this, because of this,
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:like, I don't want to be that person.
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:And if they ask for my thoughts on
Bitcoin, I will tell them, if you are
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:not willing to hold it for at least two
years, just don't bother with it at all.
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:I tell them before they get into
it to have the mindset of hodling.
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:Before I even tell them to get into
it, because it's guaranteed if they
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:see the price going down from 60
to 16, then obviously they're going
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:to be like, what the heck, right?
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:But I think to your question, it will
come back to the fundamental values
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:of, it's, it's not just money, it is
money, and it's primarily money, but
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:it's way bigger than money, and it's
about the type of person you want to be.
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:It's about the life you want to create
for yourself and the people you care
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:about now and the future and I would
actually go back to the roots of values
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:and beliefs and why this is created in
the first place and what is the impact
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:because most kids are, especially
bitcoiner kids are provided for and
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:When you were a kid, and rightfully
so, you don't have the understanding
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:of how the monetary system work, how
the society work, and I would actually
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:take a step back to uncover some of the
information about how the society works,
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:how a family work, and the importance
of having money and the importance of
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:creating a life for yourself and how
Bitcoin ultimately allow you to do that.
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:And the very concept of Proof of
work and lower time preference well,
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:help them to build that conviction.
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:And if you give them a wallet
with some Bitcoin in it, you
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:should advise them at least don't
touch it for a couple of years.
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:And then maybe you'll have some pushback,
but they will know in two years.
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:Do you
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:Tali: have some resources that you can
recommend to young people that are really
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:cool that accept Bitcoin or is Bitcoin
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:Vivian: only?
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:A really good educational source that
I have that, that I can recommend.
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:It's called Why Bitcoin Only?
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:I think it's whybitcoinonly.com.
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:It's it's actually put together by
a friend of mine and you can find
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:why Bitcoin only on Twitter as well.
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:This is someone who spent endless amount
of hours to put together a comprehensive.
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:Logical order of Bitcoin on the internet
by the most prominent thinkers in the
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:space and put together a comprehensive
guide for people to understand.
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:The concept Bitcoin is implication.
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:So it's definitely a really
great resource to look into.
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:If, especially if you're
like the researchy type.
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:There's so many good information
out there, but that site and
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:the account is one of the most
comprehensive and well put together
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:guide that's out there about Bitcoin.
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:And so that's on the educational side.
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:There are many, many companies and
resources brands are accepting Bitcoin.
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:And I know that like for teenagers,
for example, a lot of the time
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:they spend on listening to
music, like, like pop culture.
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:And they are right now we're
seeing artists taking kind of
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:Bitcoin donations or Bitcoin tips.
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:And maybe if they find.
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:The artists that they like, they wanna
support and they can support in Bitcoin.
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:And these are great entry points.
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:Tali: the two men you
interviewed in the K-pop industry,
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:. Billy and Beck.
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:They were mentioning specifically about
K pop music and one of them mentioned
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:that there's a lightning store.
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:K pop is so popular
now with young people.
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:It doesn't matter which
culture you're from.
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:Everybody loves K pop.
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:So what website were there specifically
addressing when they were talking
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:about the K pop lightning store?
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:Vivian: Right.
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:both of them, they're working on a
Bitcoin music project called The Way
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:You Believe, and the website is wyb.so.
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:The background is Chani.
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:He used to be an K pop idol, like a
solid K pop idol in a singing group.
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:And then later on he became professional
producer and singer songwriter.
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:And he can, he originally connected
with Jimmy Song , and then got
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:inspired to do a Bitcoin music project
called the Way You Believe, because
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:Bitcoin changes our way to believe.
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:About many things.
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:So that's the idea of the song and
they're trying to leverage the influence
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:of K pop and the well production
of it to bring Bitcoin mainstream.
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:So that's the essence of the project.
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:And what they were saying is that
there's a a huge crypto culture in,
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:South Korea, and very, very little
people are actually Bitcoin only.
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:So their music is on they have their
own site, but it's, there is also
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:hosted on a site where I think they
have a lightning donation part and
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:it's a website that hosts a lot of
music projects and receive support
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:through lightning network, I think.
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:Are you referring to
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:the website?
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:That's called
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:wave lake.
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:Vivian: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I
think that's the one, yeah.
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:Tali: Okay.
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:, but wyb.
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:so is their specific
website for that project.
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:Okay.
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:I just want to gather some resources for.
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:Young people who
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:Vivian: want to go into
Bitcoin with something fun.
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:Yeah, and I even contributed
my voice in their project.
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:I was the first one to record a
demo for, for their demo sound.
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:Like I was acting as the lead vocal.
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:So if you tune back to that episode at the
end, you actually like hear my singing in
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:Tali: the demo.
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:That's really fun.
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:So you're also a singer.
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:Well, it's my hobby.
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:Very fun.
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:And are you streaming for sats
right now with your songs?
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:Vivian: No.
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:I would like to though.
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:I would like to.
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:Like singing is one of my, like,
less known trades or things about
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:me, but I really do enjoy singing.
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:I played music growing up and
music till today is like still.
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:A lot of a source of happiness, and
my speaker is permanently on when I'm
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:at work at home so it's definitely,
definitely an area of interest of,
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:of mine growing up, so I, I think.
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:Music things, just hobbies in
general that people care about.
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:And if we find a common connection
between these hobbies and Bitcoin,
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:then they're going to be, it's
going to be natural for the, for
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:everyone to, to get it at one point.
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:Tali: Yeah, for sure.
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:So going back to your
background of traveling.
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:From China to Canada, to the UK,
back to Canada, are you noticing
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:any sort of cultural differences
in terms of Bitcoin adoption?
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:Vivian: Actually, I don't know
because I don't encounter a
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:lot of Bitcoiners around me.
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:Most Bitcoiners I've seen are on
Bitcoin conferences and naturally so.
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:I think we're still very much, very early.
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:In, in the space that we don't encounter,
like it's still a very, it's a, it's
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:a thrill if you see a bitcoiner on the
street and you instantly identify them.
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:Like I'm usually the one who wears
like Bitcoin related shirts outside.
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:And I sometimes get eyed for it
because not everybody understand this.
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:I have the statement on my hinge profile,
which is like a app to meet people and.
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:There's a question, a prompt called
we will get along if, and I say it
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:will get along if you're a Bitcoiner
and I have people specifically,
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:they match with me just to send a
vomiting emoji to that very statement.
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:So we're that early.
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:So I don't actually see tons of Bitcoiners
in the physical locations that I'm
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:in and I'm hoping this will change
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:Tali: very soon.
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:I'm sorry you get those messages.
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:That's awful.
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:Come on, people.
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:That's rude.
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:I talked to a Bitcoiner woman who said,
I don't know if I can ever date somebody
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:who's not Bitcoiner going forward.
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:Vivian: I kind of share that.
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:I kind of share that.
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:It will at this point
is not a deal breaker.
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:But if if they send me the vomiting emoji
to that very statement, of course, like
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:that's like a that's like a no, hard no.
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:But I also recognize there's so
many Bitcoiners out there who don't
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:know that they're Bitcoiners yet.
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:Like they already have
these values installed.
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:They already believe they feel a steep
signs of frustration with what's going
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:on in the world today and don't know
why and don't know how it can change.
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:And what do you need to do is
just introduce Bitcoin to them.
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:And it'll be like instantly
become Bitcoiners.
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:Like these people are fine.
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:But ultimately, ultimately I
would definitely want my partner
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:to be a Bitcoiner, like it's
going to be a requirement,
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:Tali: I guess.
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:Okay, any last suggestions for
women who are still sitting
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:on the fence about Bitcoin?
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:Vivian: I think this doesn't specifically
apply to Bitcoin, but really with
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:everything women are very resilient
just resilient species in general.
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:And oftentimes the drawback of it
is that we're too adaptive in the,
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:in the sense that we sometimes take
a more passive approach to adapt
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:the environment around us, rather
than taking a proactive approach to
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:create the environment around us.
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:So what I would encourage everybody
that's out there, not only on the fence
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:of Bitcoin, but on, but just in general
to be more intentional in life, to
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:think about if I'm, training myself
to get used to something, or if this is
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:something that I want and I like to have
train ourselves to have more autonomy.
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:To make more active decisions based
on our beliefs and our values, instead
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:of just accommodating people around us
and trying to fit in the blank space,
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:rather we create space for ourselves,
we create the life that we want to live
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:and take a more proactive approach,
and when you start doing that, you will
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:start to see so many things are wrong.
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:There's so many things that you don't
necessarily agree with, but you're
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:playing along for the sake of it.
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:Women are more on the
front of peace seekers.
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:So sometimes we would be
agreeable just to avoid conflicts.
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:Yeah, I suggest everybody
to reconsider that approach.
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:Just be more intentional and less
afraid of putting ourselves out there.
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:Make authentic decisions, be more
true to ourselves and be more real.
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:Social issues and economy
is not a patent for men.
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:And these things, if explained
well, are not too complicated
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:for everyday women out there.
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:And this is what we're doing at
Life with Bitcoin by focusing on
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:individual stories, like those are
the things on the emotional side.
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:These are the things that
women can relate better.
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:And I believe it will help.
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:And I'm very excited to do
my share for the community.
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:But yeah, just live intentionally.
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:Do things with a more proactive approach.
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:And we're already on the low
time preference standard.
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:So that's already done.
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:And then.
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:One day or another the, the
puzzles will piece together
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:and it will lead to Bitcoin.
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:Tali: Well said, well said.
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:Thank you so much, Vivian.
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:It was so wonderful chatting with you.
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:Thank you so much for sharing
your Bitcoin story with
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:Vivian: us.
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:Yeah, of course.
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:Thanks for reaching out
and to stay in touch.
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:I'm B t c Viv, so B T C V I V on Twitter.
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:And the show is called Life With Bitcoin.
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:It's also on Twitter.
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:It's Life with Bitcoin, but
wi just n w so l I s E W.
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:I'm on YouTube as well, and feel free to
reach out if there's anything I can help.
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:Tali: Thanks for joining us today
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:.
If the discussion with our guest resonated with you and you would
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:like to dive deeper into the world of
Bitcoin, don't miss out on joining the
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:Orange Hatter Women's Reading Club.
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:The meetup link is in the show notes.
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:Also, if there are women in your life
whom you think would both enjoy and
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:benefit from learning more about Bitcoin,
please share Orange Hatter with them.
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:Until next time, bye!